Girl meets boy. Girl becomes friendly with boy. Girl fucks boy. Girl becomes stressed because boy isn't claiming her as his girlfriend. Girl wants to move on but doesn't want to lose him as a "friend". I've had so many women tell me how they've been talking to non-comittal guys for months and want more, but he doesn't seem to care. The easy answer is to stop talking to him if he doesn't want you the same way you want him. But they don't want to lose that friendship, so they keep on going through the motions, hoping one day he'll realize they should be more. That's right, friendship has become the latest in the line of weak ass excuses for holding on to a dead end relationship. I call bullshit. I'm not talking about life long friends who earned their spots, these are guys they've known for a year or less. Somehow this nigga you randomly met at a cookout four months ago has become your best friend on the planet. You're willing to suffer through relationship purgatory because your lonely ass feels some kind of connection? The word "friendship" has been misused more times than Joseline's post op vagina. Just because you laugh together, ate a few meals in front of each other, and shared childhood memories doesn't mean you're bffs—it means you two are cool. That man is not your true blue friend, he's the guy you were talking to and got attached. The entire reason he has your phone number is because of the sexual attraction. Women meet a lot of guys, but when one with the right mixture of looks and charisma gets in that ear, it's a wrap. His jokes are funnier, his lies are more believable, and the smiley face he leaves after a text is suddenly proof of love. Is this friendship or is this infatuation? Face it, every human being has people they crush on, even if you wouldn't take it there, you still show favoritism to those people. When that infatuation is aimed towards someone who would rather abuse those feelings than reciprocate, you end up getting played. There is this e...
