Reading your site makes me afraid to get in a relationship. That annoys the hell out of me. Ignorance is not bliss, it’s just plain old ignorance. Yeah, you may have slept better before you truly knew the level men stooped to in order to get in your pants, but who doesn't want to be informed? That’s like saying, “Please don’t make sex offenders register. If I found out my neighbor was a rapist, I wouldn't be so comfortable leaving my door open” sorry to break the news but not knowing doesn't make you safe, it’s makes you a target. We live in a age where every girl knows a girl who's been fucked over, and now they are so afraid of falling for the wrong man that they sabotage themselves before even getting to know the guy's last name. Women don’t just avoid the men they aren't attracted to, a lot of them stereotype and avoid the ones they are most attracted to out of fear. He “looks like he’s a player" and you don’t got time for that. What kind of half-ass reasoning is that? You’re afraid of getting hurt based off his zodiac sign, his resemblance to your ex, and the way he makes your heart beat when he looks at you? Grow. The. Fuck. Up. Fear is a weak emotion based solely on uncertainty. No, you can’t be 100% he doesn't have a girlfriend. No, you can’t be 100% that he will call after sex. No, you can’t be 100% sure what anyone says is actually the truth when they are trying to get something out of you. Now, you can worry about if he’s going to do you like the last guy did you, your cousin’s boyfriend did her... or you can drive out that weak ass fear and Spartan up.
I don’t write to make women paranoid. My goal is to make you more cautious than you were a week ago, smarter than you were a month ago, and tougher than you were a year ago. There is no shame in being played, being dick whipped, missing red flags, and making the wrong choice, as long as those experiences grow you. Do you want to end up like these bum magnets who were born in the 60’s and still walk ar...
