Behind every great man is a great woman, not an enabler, not a bottom bitch, and not Mommy #2. But most girls don’t know the difference. There are women that swear they’re being supportive by trying to assist a man with his problems, show him how to plan better, help him get on his feet, or try to focus him on a realistic goal. But who the hell asked for your help? Yes, a woman can help make a man better, but she can't change him. Being loved makes everyone better, be it from a parent, a friend, a spouse, or a child, but it won't transform a loser into a winner or a toxic asshole into a stand up person. A man must want to change, desire to grow, and have the courage to stop doing little boy shit and execute his goals.
"A man isn't his potential, he is his everyday actions. Stop getting caught up in the fantasy of what he could be and recognize what he's showing you..." -G.L. Lambert
Paying his bills, doing his resume, sucking his dick while he plays XBOX, rolling his weed, that's what basic bitches call supporting a man. You just met a man, you have no vested interest in his life, yet your focus shifts to trying to make him “a better man” instead of seeing if he’s the RIGHT man for you. These type of girls aren’t dating like Spartans, seeing if a man is worthy of being her partner, they’re trying to make any dude fit because they just want a bae. That’s not true, I saw something in him, and a good woman is supposed to inspire her man to do better. YAWN! That’s not your man, that’s a tinder dick. That’s not your partner, that’s your project. He's looking for pussy, and you’re looking for a ring… and you don’t even care if you have to put the money in his account so long as you get a proposal. Supportive turns into exploitative because what’s actually at work isn’t you being charitable. Where does he work? How does he treat you? What is his 2 year goal? What sacrifices has he made for you? It's not good enough for him to be "cool, funny, and nice". You can't build an ...

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