As soon as you get into a relationship it's like a Cuffed Alert goes off and everyone's suddenly interested. Look at the options when you’re single versus when you’re in a relationship, it’s like the Universe is playing a cruel joke. Between relationships you can’t attract anyone who consistently blows you away. Instead, you keep running into struggle baes who aren’t as good looking, established, or honest as you hoped. Dating is like produce shopping at a 99cent store, you know 9 out of 10 of those apples are going to be rotten by the time you get it home. Then things change… you find the person of your dreams, make it official and all is well, until BLAM! The glow of your commitment shoots up like the Bat Signal, and everywhere you go people are trying to get at you. The irony is, it’s no longer the 99cent brand, it’s Whole Foods quality—every exotic option you always wanted to try is now in your face. Where were they when you were single and lonely as fuck? And more importantly, what do you do when someone you’re feeling puts your relationship to the test?
The cliché saying of “the grass isn’t always greener” is just that, a saying. Some times it's greener as fuck... others times it's worse. I know a person who broke up for someone new and that relationship ended up being just as bad... but I also know a couple who started off creeping, yet ended up happily married. Each one of you is on an individual journey so you can't look at anyone else's results as law. [click_to_tweet tweet="There is no such thing as right and wrong, it's all about who fits you best." quote="There is no such thing as right and wrong, it's all about who fits you best."] No matter if you have an official boyfriend or girlfriend or someone you’re exclusively talking to, you will meet someone that makes you wonder if you’ve gotten it wrong. In that moment of temptation you THINK you know how you will handle it, but real life plays out different from theory. Over the past year I’ve received ...
