A man can be attracted to you, but not actually want you on a level deeper than lust.

This is where many of you are stuck. He likes the looks of you. But you can tell he doesn't really like YOU.

"Why is he acting like that... I don't understand what went wrong... Why isn't he stepping up like a man should?" BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LIKE YOUR ASS! It's not rocket science.

Then there’s another level… Obsession.

A man can be so attracted to your aura that he becomes uncontrollably magnetized to you. I’m talking about being obsessed in a good way. Not with your body, not with your face, not with the idea of sleeping with you—but a deep desire to be around you, know you better, and want to spoil you like a princess, respect you like a queen, and fuck you like it’s his last day on earth.

“I want to fuck her” is easy. It’s basic. It’s the first gear. Every woman can get that level of desire.

“I need her” is the goal. This is the Spartan level you all need to be able to trigger in every single man you date.

There are thousands of videos on TikTok or YouTube that tell women how to dress soft, how to style their hair, do their makeup, smell good, etc., but perfume and sundresses aren’t going to get you better results.

Let’s be real. No matter how "soft" you dress, you're still coming off as "blah". You're still only attracting medium-ugly dudes, pussy hunters, and old men online. You're in the "do what every other bitch does" era. There's no appeal, no charisma, no deeper thirst when you copy and paste what every Basica on the timeline is doing. "I'm different" is said, but where are your receipts?

Feminine traits that activate a masculine obsession are easy to learn, but hard to master because many of you are in the habit of being a little too hard, defensive, and have an attitude that’s been created from multiple failed relationships. Today, I'm going to rewire your brain to break those habits.

How To Control A Man's Mind Through His Dick

A lot has been made about Daphne Joy after her sex tape with Diddy leaked. The promotional appearances had her face all over social media, and male interest in her went through the roof. The reaction to her went from "Ewww..." to "Damn. Now I see why 50 Cent didn't pull out."

Women like Daphne tell you all you need to know about the male mind: Men love women who personify sex... without being overt. It’s not the fact that she was in a threesome; it’s the energy she exudes when speaking. It’s not giving porn-star aggressive or strip-club performative; it’s giving sweet yet naughty. Understand the difference.

In your own life, how do you attract men of a higher caliber than the local fuck boys? You can throw on the same dress as a woman you think is pretty; you can go out to the same places, but what happens when it's time to talk? Can you use voice inflections to make a man smile? Can you eye fuck? Can you captivate? Can you be witty? Can you be memorable...

I doubt it. These men pass on you because you're not showcasing anything special!

You can dress the part. Style your hair the part. Do your makeup the part. But personality-wise, you don't know what to say or do to make a man melt in your hands. Why do certain women get into high-level rooms while other women sit around asking, "Where you find him at"? It's a skill! And It's time you learned it!

Bitter broads suck their teeth like, "All these men pass around the same hos." Nah. THESE HOS exploit the same group of men because they know that these men, no matter their money or status, are easy. These women get Princess Treatment. Meanwhile, you can't even get consistent treatment. Why? Because you're a "wait for someone to want me" type of girl, not a make shit happen type of woman!

Men love hos, men love slutty behavior, and men love bimbo energy. This isn’t a secret. You don’t have to be a ho, slut, or bimbo. You only need to understand what that aesthetic looks like in terms of conversation tactics and then bait them with those traits.

Today I’m going to give you FIVE STEPS to make any man fold.

#1 Learn How to Expose His Kink

Getting to know a man to the point where you will be irreplaceable begins by knowing his secrets. The easiest way to do this is by taking him to a dirty, filthy place—not by fucking him, Basica. But by verbally pulling it out of him.

If you’ve taken the Spartan Dating Course, you know that I created a phone sex seduction script that breaks down a man’s personality and bonds him to you. This has become one of the most popular parts of my course, so I think it’s important for all of you to read it:

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Read this script because it’s going to be crucial when we come to Step #5.

#2 Learn How to Disarm Him

No man should have to grow to like you. No man should see you as “just okay” or someone to hit up when bored. No man should text text text… they should be dying to take you out, to show you off, and to stare in your face all night because you’re a piece of fucking art.

80% of the men you come in contact with, online or offline, should be on your dick like you’re a bombshell that just walked into the Love Island villa. There are women who try way too hard to get attention, and then there are women who own a room the minute they walk in. Ask yourself, are you the seat at the head of the table, or just a seat filler, keeping it warm until a real baddie arrives?

Your aura is giving supporting character, beloved. No one wants a sidekick. Everyone wants the Leading Lady. It’s time to stop being a placeholder, stop being so damn shy, so damn standoffish, so damn afraid, and step your game up.

Let me put you up on some easy yet effective tactics to make any man like you within minutes of meeting you.

Married women have one trait that a man can automatically spot that makes us think, “Yup, I knew someone got to her first,” and it’s simple, but most single women never develop it. One of the best ways to disarm a man is what I call the SPARTAN TWO-PRONG ATTACK. The first part of the attack is to