Woman 1: Dates one man at a time and claims she doesn't have the "energy" to deal with multiple guys... in reality, she's not too busy or too tired; she lacks the confidence.

Woman 2: Thinks "dating" means "fucking" and treats the talking stage like it's a real relationship because society has brainwashed her to be overly loyal... even when that man isn't officially yours.

Woman 3: Understands the concept of having options and knows that men want you more when other guys are after you. She understands that SINGLE is SINGLE and sex isn't on the table. Which means she can and will talk to that guy she met at a concert, go on a date with a guy from a dating app, and then accept a date offer from the guy DMing. None of these men are her "man" they're interviewing for the position. There is no blind loyalty because these men "like" her. There is only the power of choice.

Think about your life. Are you Woman 1, Woman 2, or Woman 3?

He's not your man, he's just in the rotation... move accordingly

I was doing a Zoom advice session two weeks ago, and the woman laid out her love life: she had an ex-boyfriend trying to get back into her life. Then she had a guy she met online who had taken her out on three dates. She felt so guilty about going out with her ex, that she told the guy she was dating about it. He was upset... she apologized... and they ended up sleeping together for the first time that night.

After sex the guy distanced himself. Surprise surprise...