A man can be attracted to you, but not actually want you on a level deeper than lust.

This is where many of you are stuck. He likes the looks of you. But you can tell he doesn't really like YOU.

"Why is he acting like that... I don't understand what went wrong... Why isn't he stepping up like a man should?" BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LIKE YOUR ASS! It's not rocket science.

Then there’s another level… Obsession.

A man can be so attracted to your aura that he becomes uncontrollably magnetized to you. I’m talking about being obsessed in a good way. Not with your body, not with your face, not with the idea of sleeping with you—but a deep desire to be around you, know you better, and want to spoil you like a princess, respect you like a queen, and fuck you like it’s his last day on earth.

“I want to fuck her” is easy. It’s basic. It’s the first gear. Every woman can get that level of desire.

“I need her” is the goal. This is the Spartan level you all need to be able to trigger in every single man you date.

There are thousands of videos on TikTok or YouTube that tell women how to dress soft, how to style their hair, do their makeup, smell good, etc., but perfume and sundresses aren’t going to get you better results.