For men, having a girl spend over means SEX. For women, spending the night comes with a lot more pressure. There’s nothing more nerve-racking than spending the night for the first time at a guy’s house who you really like. This isn’t a house date that goes long, and you leave at 1 am. This is all night into the morning, where you’ll reveal things about yourself, and even more importantly, you’ll discover things about him.
Are you the only woman that sleeps over?
What happens when you find an earring, panties, or that box of Tampax SUPER under his sink?
Will he turn his phone on do not disturb because he’s hiding something?
Is he expecting sex if you haven't had sex already?
What if you deny him and he kicks you out?
What if you give in, and his sex game is weak as fuck?
What if you get performance anxiety yourself and he thinks your pussy is trash?
What happens the day after? Will he ghost? Will he be even more into you?
No matter how old you are, don’t feel ashamed about having all these questions. Today I’m going to break down things to expect before and after a sleepover and some things men HATE that women do when they stay the night and violate our space. So, if you’re about to take that next level. Pay close attention.
PART 1: Sex for the first time... Keeping a dick hard and having him whipped in less than 20 minutes
If you're spending the night and you plan on having sex, there are certain techniques you have to know. Here's the thing, we as men grow up watching porn, we emulate and learn from the masters of sex. When women watch porn, it's usually with their vibrator to get off real quick. 90% of the women I've talked to about this subject have told me they don't watch porn as an education. They look for whatever freaky thing that's going to make them cum, bust off, and quickly delete their website history so no one finds out what they're into.
That's cool, but when it comes to throwing pussy on a man for the first or second time, what tricks do you know? Even more important, as a woman, how can you communicate what you need from a man to cum. Maybe you're the type of girl who stays wet and will make a mess on his dick the moment he hits it from the back, or maybe you're more complicated and need role play, dirty talk, etc... You have to go into this situation knowing how to make the sex enjoyable for you but also how to make a man not only cum (let's face it we cum easily) but how to make that experience feel special.
When a man sees a woman as a once in a life time fuck, he won't let go. The problem is, so many girls are good but not amazing. Ladies, we can get good sex from any girl we find on an app. We can get great sex from one of our exes who knows our spots. BUT when it comes to amazing sex, that's what we as men are always chasing- we don't ghost bomb pussy, we lock it down.
I know you're nervous, but you have to put your shy girl routine away and become a Spartan in the sheets. Foreplay is crucial. Don't let him kiss your neck, pull out your titties, and jam it in like he's an 18-year-old. Take your time. Lead him where you want him to go. My one homie was telling me about some girl he met from IG and how the sex was horrible. Here she was twerking her BBL for the camera, but when he got her home after the date, she just laid there with this weird giggle like she was slow. Of course he ghosted her, all that ass, all that online clout, and she probably thinks the reason she's single is because men are trash, no she's single because every man that finally fucks that banging body recognizes that she's all surface and no substance! Don't be like Ms. IG Weak Pussy!
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