"Hey G.L. could you please break down on your podcast or on the site today's men being so weird? For example. I finally gave this guy a chance after DMing me. First date was amazing shit the first month was amazing tbh. Next thing you know he isn't texting anymore, he's making excuses that he's super busy, and he even guilts me saying I always pick fights. I picked fights because he literally would say how much he wants to be with me then not see me. Of course he popped up with a new girl in his story. But why do men chase so hard, then act like they're bothered by that same woman! Like it can't be all about sex?"

It's not that men are weird, it's that men are cowards. Ladies, understand that it's not about sex, it's about LUST. Something about you excites him sexually, but it's not about fucking you, it's about the adrenaline rush of the CHASE. 

Men chase... for weeks, months, even years. Men try to catch you... long conversations, deep emotional bonding, tricking money or gifts. Men finally catch you... now that lust fades. You're still pretty, you're still sexy, you're still funny-- but you're not his type.

A man won't tell you that he doesn't like you, he'll double down on "I'm busy" or "it's not the right time" or any other endless reason that keeps the door open. And that MINDFUCK signals to you: Well, maybe he is my soul mate, we just met at the right time.

Dear Basica-- these men aren't your soul mates, they just wanted a turn. You did dumb shit in 2021, 2022, and you're about to do more dumb shit in 2026 because you're not evolving, you're being out gamed by men who you're smarter than.

Facts You Hate To Hear: The man you want doesn’t actually want you. He can say that he loves you, explain all the reasons why he needs more time, or shift the blame to you as the reason he acts the way he does, but regardless of the details the truth you're missing is...