How can you tell if a man’s lying? His mouth is moving.

As men, we hate being accused of lying, cheating, or hiding something. But… paying the price for the ain’t shit men that came before us comes with the territory. During the dating stage, during the relationship stage, and even in marriages, women rarely trust a man FULLY.

I’m going to tell you the 100% honest truth: You shouldn’t trust us.

Men lie about money. They lie about their jobs. They lie about their past. They lie about their relationship status. They will even lie about having a child.

Over the years I’ve seen it all…

“G.L., he’s too busy to cheat” …then it turns out he’s cheating with MULTIPLE women.

“G.L., I met his mother, and I’ve been to his house” …turns out, her dude had a whole family across town.

“G.L. He’s always with me, and I have the password to his phone” …then this same guy got another woman pregnant.

Ladies, I have over 10 years of emails that prove that no matter how smart you are, no matter how much you stalk him online and offline, and no matter how much time you spend with a man—it can all be a Jamie Foxx-level Oscar-winning PERFORMANCE.

The talking stage—doesn’t mean shit. Stop getting so open off long conversation and big promises.

The dating stage—doesn’t mean shit. Stop getting wet because a man feeds you, showers you with attention, and eats your ass.

The relationship stage—doesn’t mean shit. Stop dropping your guard as if you won, and recognize that the longer a man knows you, the easier it is to mislead you.

Age doesn’t mature a man. Love doesn’t change a man. A good woman isn’t going to stop a man. An insecure person will always find a way to self-sabotage in a way that makes zero sense. The solution isn’t to give up on love, you have to learn how to test.