Woman A: Dates one man at a time. Is loyal to the "talking" stage. Emotionally invests in that one man even without a relationship title.

Woman B: Dates multiple men. Understands that there is nothing wrong with getting to know people in order to see who is the best fit. Doesn't over-invest in any man until he proves himself.

Are you Woman A or Woman B?

Most of you pretend to be Woman B, but the reality is you date one man at a time because you're desperate to hit a home run, get wifed, and leave this crazy world of dating alone. You meet a dude; he's nice, handsome, has a good career path, and he talks just the right amount of cocky shit to make your coochie spring a leak by the end of date one. In your mind, "that's my boyfriend, he just doesn't know it yet." Women become loyal mentally before a man does anything special!

All the other guys you swiped on those apps--- cut off. All the weird thirst buckets in your DMs who you entertain out of boredom--- cut off. That ex who you're thinking about giving another chance---not anymore, cut off! You met the man who you want to be yours and you're using a combination of prayer, law of attraction, and good old fashion "wishing" to mentally affirm that he will be yours. 

• He's not your "official boyfreind" but you're going to fuck him
• You think he's so different but you haven't truly vetted him
• All of your "rules" go out the window. You make him the exception.
• Instead of having to earn you, he gets a pass, proving you're EASY AS FUCK

Strong women date from a place of power... Weak women date from a place of "hope".

When potential meets lust, smart women make dumb choices. You bought into "what could be" potential. You're open off "He's so sweet" love bombing. How old are you? How many times have you been victimized by these types of men?

Year after year after year, you refuse to build a roster, refuse to date multiple men, and put your eggs in one man's basket... then he reveals his true colors, and you pay the price. Aren't you tired of getting it wrong?

4-6 months later... he wasn't the one. He wasted your time. Now here you are, bitter, angry, and lonely because you allowed yourself to be that basic-ass woman who dated one at a time.

You're loyal to "talking," you're loyal to "dating," and you act like taking you out to eat, texting you "good morning," and going raw in you is the same thing as a commitment. "Men today play too many games." Yeah, dumb ass, and fire is hot. So why do you keep putting your hand over the flame if you know the result? All the things you learned about men since the time you were 16... and you still fall for their tricks. Why?

Have you read my books on dating and actually used it or where they just words?

Do you not realize that I've been doing this for over a decade, and I've gotten so many women to the altar by showing them step by step how to become the trophy?

Ladies, you have to be disgustingly selfish and unapologetic when dealing with any man, not some love-starved, low-self-esteem lover girl trying to turn a fuck boy into a fairy tale.

I'm not a man trying to preach down to you, I'm a man trying to help you understand how MEN WORK so YOU CAN WIN.

A Spartan woman who read my books and followed this website would have had another guy or two on the roster. A Spartan would have read Ho Tactics and known this man was just a trick, or read Unicorn Delusion to know that the honeymoon stage is always a false high. A Spartan would have never put her eggs in one fucking basket because a Spartan lives by the rule that she's single and free to do what the fuck she wants until someone earns her loyalty! You're not a Spartan; you are still a little girl in a grown-ass woman's body that gets her hopes up because you're afraid to risk the dick and have a roster of men competing to wife you.

Women are the prize. "Not these days, Mr. Lambert, with the way guys act like females--" zip that shit up Basica, no one wants to hear your hot ass breath spewing excuses! 

I don't care if you don't go many places to meet guys or if you only get a few quality options that want to date you, the only thing you need to hit reset on your sad ass weak ass Basica ass life is to be proactive and stop waiting for these men to pick you up and put you down! Overcommitting is something 9 out of 10 of you do out of pure laziness.

Yes, men are guilty of doing it as well, but the average male always has a backup plan, women rarely do. Males are always talking to multiple women; even the corny guys have options. Why don't you have at least two men who you can call right now and get taken out to the best restaurant in your city? Ladies, I'm a happily married man who used to play this game when I was younger. A lot of guys don't like me because I help women in need. Stop being hard-headed and use this wisdom I'm about to share as we go deep into the mindset of how this game is played so you can either break free of this way of life or avoid it altogether...

How Men Play The Game

If a man is not engaged, married, or in a long time serious relationship, his eggs are in other baskets, meaning that he is actively in the process of dating other women, fucking other women, or open to talking to other women while he's dealing with you.

Why do men do this? Because even the dumb ones are smart enough to cover their bases. If you start acting funny, get in your feelings, turn out to be a false alarm, or if he finds someone he likes more, a man can freely move on to the next basket without heartbreak or depression. For example, when you break up with your “exclusive, but not official” friend of six months, you cry and stress to the point of being physically sick because you were 100% invested in that man who suckered you into a half-ass relationship. On the other side, he may get mad and want you back, but he has another girl who will cheer him up.

"How did he move on from me so fast?" because that other woman was ALREADY on his roster, beloved!

Most men don't invest 100% in your stock. He was 40% into you, 20% into his ex who he was still fucking, 15% into the new crush he’s been trying to pull off Instagram, and he kept the last 25% reserved in case he meets a new chick off Tinder. Relationships end every day, and men can’t afford to be left emotionally bankrupt over a girl he was only half-sure about in the first place.

It’s romantic suicide to invest in a person that you’re not blown away with or sure about, and that goes for men and women. However, women are generally more willing to take that risk and put all their eggs in one basket much more frequently than men because their desire for romance and love blinds them from the warning signs that the dude she’s crushing on has serious issues and isn’t worth going all in with. 

The reality of your romantic life is that you HATE dating, you meet a guy who seems better than most, you stop looking and focus on getting to know him exclusively. Earth to Basica! Learn to fucking multitask and stop being so lazy!

You can not give guys you just "talk to" husband benefits just because you want to play house! Cock your head, roll your eyes, and tell the world how special you are, but if your relationship status remains “it’s complicated,” that means the person you're dealing with thinks he can do better.

Men today realize that they don’t have to say, “Be my girlfriend” or “You know I love you” in order to get a girl to give up pussy, mouth, or money. He simply needs to be consistent and shower you with attention until you feel a deep connection. But behind the scenes, it's all a scam. You don't truly know him, and most likely he doesn't truly want you. A man who isn’t sold on you will hold back emotionally because he is looking for something better.

Emotionally detaching yourself during the dating stage is mandatory. Romance is an audition where a woman should test consistency and worthiness. How can you do that if you're blinded by potential? You would have to be a fool to lower your guard and date with your heart on your sleeve, knowing how lame these men are. You have value; you have what these men want. I don't give a fuck what they say, how they were raised, or any shallow trait; you need to expose a man's true agenda.

You think you know everything, but you don't...

-How do you know he really likes you?

-If he likes you as much as he says why aren't you official?

-Are you sure you're the only one he talks to?

-Can you give some real examples to justify why he's the only guy you're currently talking to? ...I'll wait.

Those questions are triggering because you know what you have is built on a bunch of nothing. You constantly have love on the brain, but that man isn't thinking about your ass. You've diagnosed a crush as a soul tie and now you're trying to overcompensate by giving him all kinds of benefits hoping he picks you for real.

Why would any man seriously commit to you? Because you're pretty? Because you're smart? Because you have a good job? Because you're funny? Because you have a big heart? None of those things make you rare! "I'm not like other girls," is said by every other fucking girl.

You have Unicorn Delusion, this idea that your pussy is magic and your personality is irreplaceable, but every time a man breaks up with you, or falls back, or ends up posting a new chick to his social, you realize that you don't live up the hype. Aren't you tired of losing, being lonely, and having to fill yourself with fake confidence?  

To become a Spartan is to become a Game Changer and the first step is to fucking listen! You're assuming you know men, but you are guessing. I'm a man, so I'll break it down to you in a way those guys who are trying to fuck you won't. The first lesson will always be to know your enemy, and in this case it's men. Guys want to rent you, not buy you, meaning the aim is to get the pussy without a commitment and not settle. How? By convincing a woman that she's special or different or that he's losing his mind over her, you drop your guard. Baby girl, never ever drop your guard. 

Does this man even like you?

What is he doing to solidify this top spot in your life?

Are you two really together?

Did you two define what you are?

Has he invested real money or taken you anywhere that a teenager with a summer job couldn't take a girl?

Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you have a history of being undervalued! You're open off of basic shit because you desperately want the fairy tale. That's why you brainwash yourself into believing you matter to this man despite him treating you average and never defining his role in your life. Call yourself his “Friend,” “Bae,” or whatever else makes you feel less guilty about giving up pussy to a man that won’t commit, but at the end of the day, you are not his girlfriend, you're just a girl he sees.  

Every male over 21 knows that if you give a typical girl attention and affection, she will assume love and a relationship are on the way. By the time she figures out she's been played, it's too late, and he's off to the next chick. You can't be mad at that because he was always single; you were the one assuming that you were in a relationship.

Do you know what makes men want you more? Thinking that other men are going to snatch you up. Men are compettitive, the problem is that you all are too shy or too awkward to make a man jealous.

"I'm going to post myself outside, and he's going to be upset at the thought of losing me." That's basic bitch behavior that every man can sniff out. What does that accomplish? He texts you pretending to be jealous. You go see him because you like being yelled at and confuse anger with passion. He fucks you hard, chokes you a little, and tells you that it's his pussy... now the game is over. Making him "mad" got you some dick, but it didn't get that man to respect you.

The goal is to find a man who sees you as special from the outset, not one that you have to constantly play games with to see if he cares about you. The fact that you're just another girl on his roster, not a woman he's trying to lock down is proof that you don't know how to fucking date.

10 out of 10 times, being impressively different gets a commitment in less than a month. So where's your commitment? Where's the investment? Where's the time, energy, and money that proves he's in this for the long run? It's not there because you're not his girl; he's just taking a turn before he goes on to the next chick.

Spartanhood is about breaking down the old basic you in order to get to your True self. So let's break down how to become a girl with a roster, not just another girl stuck on stupid.

The Cheat Sheet Guide to Dating Multiple Men

"But G.L., I try to build a roster, but I can't. I'm on the dating apps. I go out in public hoping someone talks to me, but there aren't that many men that I like."

If you can't manifest better options, the problem isn't with the external world-- it's with your INTERNAL world. This reality is a reflection of you. There is no "outside"; everything springs forth from your subconsciousness. If you don't understand how to go beyond the law of attraction, go beyond hoping and wishing, and truly change your mind in order to change your world, then you're going to stay a victim of circumstance instead of a woman who always gets what she wants.

Know what you want. Say what you want. Write it down.

Picture your life. Imagine living that life. Write it down.

Stop being generic. "I just want someone nice and loyal" or "I want someone tall and handsome" you're not going to get the life you want with bullshit traits. Those will boomerang back at you. You'll get someone nice and loyal-- but broke. You'll get someone tall and handsome-- but he has a wife.

Your mind must be strong; you don't make affirmations; you make dents into the universe with specific directions, verbal, written, and know it's coming like you know the sun will rise tomorrow!

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Your mind then has to match your actions. The biggest issue is you THINK empowered then go out and still act TYPICAL. That's sending mixed messages. Here's 5 steps to stay balanced.

5. No more guilt for dating multiple men: Fuck them. It's a game. You