What does it mean to be an "It" girl? To be so magnetic and confident that both women want to be like you and men want to be inside you? It takes more than a pretty face and a slim waistline to inspire lust. It takes more than a phat ass or designer clothing to inspire other women to want to emulate you. Aura can't be bought or faked, it must be unlocked, cultivated, and maintained.

• Unique Style - Don't just wear the clothes-- enhance them. You both have the same dress, but the way you style your shit turns heads; her style just looks like the default Shein AI model.
• Charisma - Why the fuck are you being so shy at your age? Looking away, afraid to make eye contact, unable to spark a conversation. You don't giggle; you don't mean-mug. You open your mouth and pull people in because a well-put-together woman always has something interesting to say!
• Hygiene - Smell good EVERYWHERE. Your hair, breath, and coochie should always smell heavenly. There is no such thing as "in a rush" or "just running to the store" in the world of a bad bitch. Cleanliness is Godliness.
• Mental Health - This is where 90% of you struggle. Anxiety, trauma, and low self-esteem have you out here confusing attention with love. Men can't fix you, but they WILL exploit you if you're giving out signs of being mentally weak.

Don't date again until you read this full article because I'm about to break down the rules to make yourself unstoppable by this time next week.

Woman A: Please Pick Me, because I'm nice, loyal, sweet, and I'm not going to stress you.

Woman B: Leave me the fuck alone because I'm savage, date multiple men, and in order to gain exclusive rights to lock me down, you have to spend money, invest time, and publicly earn me with acts of tribute.

Are you a pick me or are you a CHASE ME? Are you out here hoping a man sees how "special" you are or are you out here raising hell and making these men jump through hoops.

Laides, we as men know the fucking difference! I've talked about Spartan Confidence for years, but today I'm going to touch on a subject I've only shared with a handful of women. Feminine energy is real. It attracts, it hypnotizes, and it elevates. To tap into that feminine alchemy you have to see life through the eyes of the enemy-- Men.

The moment a man lays eyes on you and sees how you react to him he can tell if you're a Pick Me or Chase Me. Based on your last few situations you know what category you're in. Be real with yourself, you don't know the first thing about having power over males. You don't feel strong, you don't think you're enough, and you don't know how to make men work to earn you. That changes right now!

Don't Want To Be That Bitch— Become That Bitch!

Are you a leader or a follower? Are you a Spartan or a Basica? Are you a Pick Me or a Chase Me?

Stop living in the past. The people who judged you, the words that hurt you, anything that lowered your self-esteem is water under the fucking bridge! From this day forth, I want you to understand your worth. No more looking on IG and saying, "Ugh, she's so pretty. I wish I looked like that..."

Basicas ask other women, "Where did you buy that dress?" or "What makeup products do you use?" but the real question is: Why are you trying to emulate HER instead of embracing UNIQUENESS??? No one else should be looked at as GOALS. There is no comparison. You are pretty, you are worthy, and you are wanted! Spend less time admiring the lives of others and more time giving yourself the flowers you deserve for being "that bitch."

Having the kind of confidence that speaks loud AF without you having to say a word is a hell of a flex.

They're talking about what they bring to the table— you're busy being the table

They're talking about what other people did— you're busy doing

They're looking for someone to make them happy— you find that every time you look in the mirror

These peasants aren't on your level.

Those women who never ask to be picked but stay getting chose >>>

Don't affirm that, don't believe it, know that you are her and she is you, and you will no longer live in the shadow of "maybe I'm not good enough." You are more than enough, and going forward, you will make everyone see that you're built different.

The biggest lie the devil ever told was "there's only one type that men go for." From a young age, they make girls insecure to the point where they think the way to win at love is to copy the next chick. Where does she shop, what surgeon did she go to, what's her strategy???

"Teach me, sis" energy is for brainless, sheep-like, low-vibrational thinkers. This is Sparta! You don't become better by copying someone else's formula.

Step 1: The Trick All Men Fall For

Do you really want to know what men want? It's the chase and challenge mixed with basic lust tricks. Males are lust-driven. I don't care how spiritual, nerdy, or calm and cool he comes off — these dudes arethirsty and fall for certain things. Let me elaborate...

Go to your phone and