What does it mean to be an "It" girl? To be so magnetic and confident that both women want to be like you and men want to be inside you? It takes more than a pretty face and a slim waistline to inspire lust. It takes more than a phat ass or designer clothing to inspire other women to want to emulate you. Aura can't be bought or faked, it must be unlocked, cultivated, and maintained.

• Unique Style - Don't just wear the clothes-- enhance them. You both have the same dress, but the way you style your shit turns heads; her style just looks like the default Shein AI model.
• Charisma - Why the fuck are you being so shy at your age? Looking away, afraid to make eye contact, unable to spark a conversation. You don't giggle; you don't mean-mug. You open your mouth and pull people in because a well-put-together woman always has something interesting to say!
• Hygiene - Smell good EVERYWHERE. Your hair, breath, and coochie should always smell heavenly. There is no such thing as "in a rush" or "just running to the store" in the world of a bad bitch. Cleanliness is Godliness.
• Mental Health - This is where 90% of you struggle. Anxiety, trauma, and low self-esteem have you out here confusing attention with love. Men can't fix you, but they WILL exploit you if you're giving out signs of being mentally weak.

Woman A: Please Pick Me, because I'm nice, loyal, sweet, and I'm not going to stress you.

Woman B: Leave me the fuck alone because I'm savage, date multiple men, and in order to gain exclusive rights to lock me down, you have to spend money, invest time, and publicly earn me with acts of tribute.

Are you a pick me or are you a CHASE ME? Are you out here hoping a man sees how "special" you are or are you out here raising hell and making these men jump through hoops.

Don't date again until you read this full article because I'm about to break down the rules to make yourself unstoppable by this time next week.