You want to skip to the part where you're taking vacations, dressing in matching pajamas, and singing my man my man... but how are you going to get to that level with the clowns you entertain? Your love life isn't The Notebook, it's Welcome to Derry. Too many of you make soul ties with psychopaths, waste time with losers, or try to fix narcissists because you're sooooo anxious for dating to be over and deep love to start.
What happens when the person you want doesn't want you back? What happens when the person you held down throws everything away in favor of something new? What happens when there are no exes to run back to or new guys with potential, and you realize that you've played this game all wrong? What happens when you finally have to admit that the common denominator in your failure to be loved... is you?
There's a science to dating. If you know the formula, you can literally solve every romantic problem and change your life overnight. This formula isn't a secret; no one's gatekeeping it from you. It's simple: Your Personality + Your Sex Appeal = Desirability. The more desired you are, the more power you have.
Your skillset is broken. You lack the ability to project your personality, and you don't know how to truly be sexy without coming across as too pushy, too awkward, or too desperate. As a result, you're not truly desired, you're something to do, you're cool for a few months, but you have yet to tap into that "Fuck I need her" feeling that ALL men have when you take them into deep waters.
You talk too much. You don't know how to listen, size men up, then mind fuck them.
You debate too much. You dont' know how to play dumb, let a man think he's smarter than you, then use that mental trap to seduce him into your web.
You fuck too fast. You don't know how to make a man chase, invest, and covet your vagina. You fold the moment he kisses your neck and tells you he wants to taste you.
Typical Girl Goes On A Date: Talks about a bunch of nothing, learns nothing, and hopes the guy who took her out likes her enough to call again. He doesn't like you, he doesn't understand you, and the parts that you show off are either boring, vapid, or goofy.
Typical Girl In A Situationship: Complains that "he won't commit" and obsesses over what she's doing wrong. Tries to fuck, suck, and submit her way into making this man see her as special. He doesn't want you anymore, he's gotten to know you, and he's cool, he's gotten to hear your story, and he's yawning, he's gotten to sleep with you and knows that you or your pussy is not worth a long-term commitment.
Typical Girl With Anxiety: You overthink every choice to the point where you always choose wrong because your intuition is shit, your nervous system is fried, and your friend group knows that you give good advice but will never take good advice because you can't see your own flaws. That means that you're in a LOOP of bad choices, which manifests in harmful situations, hurtful people, and hurtful results.
You are typical because you don't know how to tap into the science of dating. You're superstitous and think that "real love will find me" or "God will send my husband when I'm ready." No, Basica. There is no mysterious force at play keeping you from being loved. You simply don't know what the fuck you're doing out here and are stumbling through dating and relationships instead of being the Spartan Mastermind that you could be.
The biggest lie your ego has ever told is, "Good thing comes to those who wait." Are you slow? Name one success story with a passive Main Character? Winning requires strategy, not hope. You're a background character waiting for some man to walk into your life and shine his spotlight on you, to make you special as opposed to becoming special on your own. Look at how weak you've become. You don't initiate, you react. You don't take risks; you live in a routine. You don't have power, you have excuses!
You're getting older, less cool, and more boring every year and you think someone is going to want that? Every New Year you make a promise to yourself that you break by March. This needs to be the last time you fuck around and find out that life isn't a game of "wait your turn" and realize that life is your bitch, and you need to grab her by the throat and take what you want.
It's time to kill that old you and start the new year off right!
You aren't a fucking sidekick character, a short-term fling, a piece of pussy guys fuck and toss, nor are you some boring basica who guys leave on read. The shortcut to your happy ending is going inside and destroying that past life so you can rebuild yourself into a woman of action, strategy, seduction, and patience.
Become her and stop being this hot ass mess of a person that has you confused, lonely, and depressed.
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