What changes this year? Will you get engaged? Will you find lasting love? Will you finally put all the pieces together and become a woman who manifests nothing but positive experiences, wealth, and genuine relationships… or will it be just another wasted year filled with the same old mistakes?
- You keep fucking users who don’t respect you.
- You go in circles with people from the past.
- You blow money on dumb shit that doesn’t get you any closer to being happy.
- You stay in that same old relationship or situationship that’s slowly but surely draining your energy.
- You’re unhappy… but won’t take ACTION to change that.
If you’re reading this, it’s for a reason. You’re stuck, you’re stagnant, and your subconscious KNOWS that now is the time for real change, not empty talks, bullshit lists, and low vibrational effort.
2026 is about POWER & Elevation. Recognize your problems, don’t just react to them. Instead of patching holes, you need to tear it all down and rebuild yourself from the ground up. You can’t start a new chapter holding on to old habits.
“I don’t ask for much, just his time…” -Weak Bitch Proverb
So… what’s Your Fucking Problem?
Mental Illness. Your mental illness is that you keep doing the same things, keep thinking you know what you’re doing, keep doubling down on, “There’s nothing wrong with me, it’s these men,” and end up with the same results. Why do you keep attracting fuck boys and manchilds? I got invited to four weddings last year from women who read this website, just like you. How can they make smart choices and you can’t?
Be honest, your taste in men is trash. You should be embarrassed by “your type“. You should be disgusted by the way you run behind men who couldn’t care less about you. But there you go, checking your phone and looking for attention from someone who only sees you as a placeholder. You know better, yet you choose the worst option every single time. Stop calling these men “mistakes.” They are your choices.
With all due respect: You are fucking slow! You have a mental block, you believe the wrong shit, you are armed with misinformation, and even though you are smarter than most men, you don’t have the ability to rise above the dating or relationship game. You’ll read my books, only to run back out there and get clowned out, hustled, and hurt because you don’t think or act like a Spartan.
You are not a trophy, you are not wifey, you are not desirable beyond the obvious want to sample your vagina and toss you back to the streets. Outside of sex, these men don’t really care to spend time with you because you’re a mental turn-off and emotional drain.
No matter how many times you whisper, “I am enough,” you don’t believe it. Your self-confidence is faker than those little black Chanel bags you see on IG. Your stitches are showing, beloved! You’re a knockoff, pretending to be high value. Men chase you, but don’t keep you because once they get to know you—the real you—the damage is clear: You’re broken, you’re insecure, and while you’re a “nice” girl, you’re not a “strong” woman. What man with options would ever want that?
Keep your legs closed. Be charming. Be seductive. Tease a man. Earn respect through conversation… You can’t do that because if you’re not fucking them, then they’re not interested. You would rather play dumb and chase after men than set boundaries because your inner basic bitch is screaming, “But what if I push him away by not giving him what he wants?”
There are men who give women the world… but you’re not the right kind of woman.
Generic Women Traits: A nice, sweet, selfless girl who giggles too much, is defined by her job, projects overly independent energy, is afraid to rock the boat with questions, and doesn’t really have anything deep to say outside of what’s on the timeline or TV.
Spartan Traits: A self-centered woman who charms with her words, excites with her stories, makes a man blush with her wit, projects princess energy, and isn’t afraid to challenge each question.
Which woman are you? Don’t answer with your mouth; look at the results of your life.
2026: Are you going to keep losing, or are you ready to take the steps below to heal, reset, and stop being so fucking stupid? To become a secure woman who plays the game like a master, not like a peasant who reacts to the game like a moron, is the only way to manifest your happy ending.
If you don’t like my tone, stop reading and go back to a chatbot that’ll be warm and friendly and give you sanitized answers. I’m not CHATGPT. I’m not here to be your friend; I’m here to drag you with the truth until you stop being so fucking retarded over these men and finally evolve into a woman who gets everything she wants. Let’s begin…
Eight Things You Need To Stop Doing & Start Doing To Change Your Life
#8 The Problem With Your Vagina:
What did your pussy do for you last year? Did it get your bills paid, did it get an engagement ring, did it get you a car for your birthday? The most you probably got was dinner, because you’re not doing it right. I’m not talking about sex, I’m talking about the power to make men do what you say.
There’s a not-so-secret formula to get a man to like you. There’s another formula to keep a man chasing and make him want to commit to you. The problem is no one has broken it down to you in a way that you can fully understand. The first step is to understand that true pussy power comes from the chase. You have to make every man think they can fuck you, but only reward those who over-invest. I’m not talking about, dinner and a movie, long talks on the phone, or Cashapp’ing a little bit of money. I’m talking about OVER-INVEST, in terms of huge efforts to win you over.
Men don’t ghost, fall back, or suddenly get “too busy” when they’ve put too much in; they continue to chase.
The problem with you is that you don’t put yourself on a pedestal. You put men with money on a pedestal, you put men with good looks on a pedestal, you put those exes who actually made you cum on a pedestal. This is why you’re easy to fuck. You look up to men instead of looking down on them. You don’t gatekeep your pussy like a bad bitch is supposed to, and nothing else on this list matters until you correct that.
New Rules: Don’t wait 90 days for sex– instead of that dumb shit, you must wait for effort. Don’t wait until you go on four dates for sex– instead, wait for proof of deeper interest in your as a person.
“But, what does that effort look like?” It looks like PRESSURE, basica! It looks like a man obsessed, pressed, and trying to move things around to see you, to talk to you, and to be close to you even with your clothes on. Wanting YOU will always hit different from wanting your body. That’s what you judge over time.
Many of you can be celibate for a year, come back, and still give it up to a bum because the problem is with your self-worth, not the act of sex! You can say “I’m not ready yet,” but you can’t stand on “do more to earn me” because you don’t see your vaginia as something a man will overperform for.
Stop waiting until after you fuck to boss up. He’s not going to get you anything or change his treatment of you at that point. This isn’t about buying you, it’s about earning you! Consistent effort, investment, and a drive to keep courting you even when he’s not allowed to taste it. That’s what your pussy is for, not letting some guy cum in you and hoping he spoils you when your birthday comes– he won’t.
#7 Pretending Not To Care: You say you don’t care or aren’t impressed, but really are. When you meet a man who has a good career, who looks nice, or who aligns with your personality, it gets you open. When a man baits you with his perfect life, you get excited because your mind jumps to “I could see myself with him”. But you’re so “fake defensive” that you pretend this isn’t the case instead of being honest with yourself. You can’t outwit a man if your eyes are closed to when it comes to your own thoughts.
“I don’t care, it’s whatever,” is a front. When he doesn’t call, you hurt. When he says something that reminds you that he’s not actually your boyfriend, you get an attitude. You want this to work so bad that you’re on a constant up-and-down ride of emotions instead of being the one in charge and setting the pace.
He gives you attention, he makes you feel seen. Then he takes it away, only to come back and make you feel wanted again. Attitude, sadness, excitement, bliss—then repeat. Are you a woman? Or are you his puppet?
Weak, follow-the-man type of women never win, they always get used, and then they suck their teeth and act like they were the victim. You weren’t a victim, sweetie; you participated every step, unable to verbalize your demands because even at your age, you’re still afraid of disappointing men. Admit internally that you like the idea of a man, that you’re impressed. Then unpack it so you don’t fall too fast.
It’s not him, it’s what he has. It’s not him, it’s how he looks. It’s not him, it’s what I’m after… Keep yourself honest, and then go deeper after you get to know him. Is he smart? Is he interesting? Is he compatible? Too many women judge the mask the man is wearing, not what’s underneath. Move smarter!
#6 Not Admitting What You Want: You can’t even admit internally what you’re after. How can you get a man to see your value, let alone want to commit to you, if you can’t open your mouth and say what you want? In your head, are you clear in terms of your intentions, or are you vague?
“I just want to meet someone and be happy…” What the fuck does that mean?
“I just want him to act right and treat me better…” define better?
“This year, I’m going to start living for me…” What were you living for before, dumb ass?
If you want to manifest REAL results, you have to think in full, practical thoughts. Why does clarity matter? Your mind is a computer. If you type in non-specific commands or prompts, you’re going to get all kinds of wrong answers.
Tell the universe that you want someone who’s rich and looking to settle down. And the universe pops a man into your life who’s wealthy. “Oh my god, it worked.” A month later, that man has taken you out, tricked money, fucked you, and then falls back because he’s decided to get back with his ex. You were just an appetizer.
The universe gave you what you said, but not what you wanted, because you weren’t clear in all the steps. Stop being afraid to think in details. If you think about it, say it, and command it, you will get it. That’s an easy formula, but you never put it into action because you’ve lived a life of, “I never get what I want, so let me lower expectations.” Kill that mental disease of fearful thinking, or keep taking losses.
#5 Stop Telling, Start Showing: When you tell a story about your toxic ex, does it show that you’re a loyal woman worth of respect? No, it paints you as a simple-minded woman who suffered through a bad relationship with a trash man. If you’re in a relationship and you tell your friends that you deserve better, do you then go back and show your partner what you need to be happy? No. You keep complaining to friends, hoping things change.
If you want a new man to see you as special, then don’t come in with receipts of how you got dogged out by your ex.
If you want someone to treat you better than the last guy, you have to show them that you only accept the best from the jump!
A huge issue you need to correct starting now is how you project your greatness. If I took you out on a date, what would you show me that would make me think, “Damn, she is a Spartan.” Think about your typical date energy: You went to some school. You work some job. You like music and travel. Who fucking cares? “I’m smart, I’m well-read, I’ve traveled, I’m funny. I’m the type of woman any man would be happy to have.” YAWN.
Men who date you don’t think you’re smart because you fall for the lies every other girl has fallen for. Guys don’t care about your boring job, they think the music you like is lame, and no man gives a fuck about travel photos unless you’re in a bikini showing body.
The shit you all think is cute, other women may check for, but men do not. They only laugh at your jokes because they’re trying to fuck. They only tell you how “different” you are to earn brownie points. In reality, these men don’t stick around because you are saying a lot on dates, on the phone, when texting, but in person, you don’t show anything.
You only have yourself to blame when you go on dates with a vanilla personality. You only have yourself to blame when you get to the relationship stage and a man realizes that there’s nothing special about you once the novelty of lust has worn off. Every time something doesn’t work out, women tend to think in terms of revenge, not logic. “I’m going to make you regret how you fumbled me.” Ma’am, life isn’t a reality show reunion show. No one fumbled you. It was a lesson to step your game up, self-reflect, and do better.
Life is a journey of lessons, not a pile of pettiness.
Work on your SELF. Not to go back to show that person how they messed up—that person was a necessary tool in your evolution. You need to become more fun, more dynamic, more witty, and more deep. Stop looking at life with your basic ass eyes and “I’m going to make them regret,” negativity, and rise above it to become a woman who can always turn her situations into a win by improving on past performances.
#4 Be more assertive in your actions: “I don’t know what to do” is a sign of a weak, confused mind. You don’t date with clarity or clear goals that you stand by. What you say you want in your head doesn’t translate in real life because every little thing influences you.
“I don’t think I like them for you,” is said, and you panic. Your friends have an opinion about someone you’re dealing with, and now you don’t know if you’re doing the right thing.
“I got too much going on right now,” is said by a man you’re dealing with and your mind spirals because his words contradict his actions.
People whisper things in your ears. The men you like may do or say something you don’t like. Hell, even your own mood may swing and you’re not sure about the direction of your life. In these moments, you lose control because you’re afraid you’re doing everything wrong.
“G.L., tell me what to do, and I’ll do it.” I can’t tell you how to win, because even with my blueprint, you’ll come back and say something dumb like, “We had a conversation, and everything’s cool,” or “I’m going to wait until I’m in a better mindset to put your plan into action.” Again, weak women who don’t know how to make strong choices, because they’re afraid of the unknown. There is nothing wrong with seeking advice or hearing others out, but there is something very wrong when you don’t have a compass of your own that’s reliable, so you constantly listen to outside noise.
If you want your life to change, you have to stop being an indecisive little basic bitch and be clear in your goals:
I want to find a husband. I will not accept casual sex energy nor dating to see what happens level of treatment. I will not lower my bar or make exceptions because I have strong feelings for a person. I will not give second chances based on excuses. No longer will I have a soft heart, put all my eggs in one basket, or keep my mouth closed when it comes to my wants. I am the sun, everything revolves around me.
You can affirm that now… but can you KEEP that energy when a man’s in your face? Do you want to be the center of the universe, or do you want to keep doing what 90% of women do and shrink yourself, hoping some dusty ass man picks you?
#3 Be softer and feminine in your projection: How you dress, the words you use in conversation, your eye contact, even the way you style your hair, matter. You can’t attract a high-value man cursing every other word, being loud, dressing like you just rolled out of bed, or having a resting bitch face 24-7. You have to make an attempt to shine your light, because when you feel good and look good, it magnifies you and attracts a better breed of men.
When it comes to dating, lead with positivity and softness. Don’t tell, ask. Don’t criticise, suggest. Don’t be passive-aggressive; request clarity. When you move differently from every other woman a man has ever dated, meaning you are pleasant, logical, and don’t run hot with emotions when you’re upset, then he recognizes that you’re a true Unicorn.
Dating for men is either about sex or about finding a woman who can bring him peace. Women who are dripping with attitude, mannish, always have to dictate, or are easily triggered to argue and/or shut down, are annoying. A guy will fuck you, toy with you, and drop you because you embody stress. A woman who is easy to talk to, upbeat, and positive even when faced with a situation she doesn’t understand or like, gets held onto.
“She’s not right for me” = “Her personality rubs me the wrong way.”
The main problem I see is that women, especially those of you 30+, don’t know how to be sweet, only defensive, paranoid, and overly hard. That’s not the Spartan way, you don’t take shit or ever be a pushover, but that doesn’t mean you’re constantly battling with a man. Relax, soften up, and recognize the mindfuck that comes with feeding a man sugar instead of salt.
#2 Become comfortable with “no”: Let’s address the elephant in the room. You all fuck too fast. You don’t rock the boat and go with what a man wants. And you get sucked into these purgatory relationships because you’re not standing up to men.
Women in their early 20s can afford to fuck cute guys because they have a few years before they need to start taking dating seriously. Women from 27+ can’t get caught up in sexual relationships because you’re wasting your prime dating years on pointless dick.
He likes you, he takes you out, he’s handsome and smells good, now he’s kissing on you, and you fold. Why can’t you say “no”? Why do you allow this man to grip you up and fuck your brains out for the price of a dinner date?
You’re dealing with a guy who is just “vibing” with you, but you want something more. Why do you allow yourself to be a “friend” and not a girlfriend? This idea of “I’m not going to say anything, I’ll wait for him,” is not only dumb, it’s cowardly.
You’re so afraid to say what you actually want because what if he doesn’t want you like that? Then your ego is crushed. You’re giving girlfriend benefits to a guy who doesn’t like you, and all that “Bad bitch” stuff you talk goes out the window. At the end of the day, verbalizing what you want from a man is scary because you’re a slave to rejection.
Do you know what’s worse than being rejected? Being used for months, even years, by a man who is on the search for a better woman. A man can’t waste your time unless you give him that time in the first place, and the price to have you is way too cheap for you to ever refer to yourself as a Queen.
#1 Every Man You Meet Is An Opportunity: Stop seeing men as your saviors and start using them like they’re tools to better your life. This is Sparta. We don’t date for sex, we don’t date for company, we don’t enter relationships because they’re “nice enough” nor do we take on projects and label them as partners. Every man you meet should be a stepping stone.
There are men who are useful when it comes to practicing how to flirt and how to seduce, then you toss them when you’re done. There are men who are useful as tricks, who can upgrade your wardrobe, take a few bills off your plate, or even take you out to places in the city that you want to eat at. Then there are men who have the full package, and can not only make your life better financially, but also grow you mentally. The mentors, the business connections, the well-known networking opportunities.
When you meet a man, he has to bring something to the table that will leave you better off than when you first exchanged numbers. If a man’s only value is texting, cracking jokes, and giving you attention, then you’re doing it all wrong.
You are a real-life dream girl. You deserve to have a dream life. Stop asking “how” and start living in the power of setting a bar where you verbalize what you need, and dare a man not to give it to you. Those basic birds sit there with closed mouths and open legs, hoping to get more. A woman who knows her worth knows what she wants and gets it.
A woman who knows she has options doesn’t need to play nice or be humble. She expects to get what she asks for, she expects to see a man learn on the job and do things going forward without having to prompt him, and she expects to be chased and courted at the highest level because her mentality isn’t to complain or threaten; it’s to walk away when she isn’t getting her way.
That’s not brat behavior, that’s self-worth. If you’re not living in that energy this year and next, then you have only yourself to blame when you keep crying over the same types of men.
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