A man’s goal is access. He wants access to your heart, your coochie, maybe even your money, car, or the favors you can do for him career-wise. The point is, every woman has something that will bring a man to her table.
He's looking to trade you what he has for what you have. The sad fact is that the only thing most of you get is attention and dick. Meanwhile, these men walk away feeling like they got MORE than they put into you.
What’s YOUR price when it comes to entertaining a man? Don't tell me with words... what has been your price in the past? I guarantee that 90% of you haven't gotten your worth and that changes today with this podcast episode:
How To Test A Man’s Pockets – Generous Vs. Cheap
The goal is to find someone who sees the greatness in you, not someone who's playing games or using you because they're bored or horny. Happy endings exist, but the RIGHT ONE for you won't appear automatically, it isn't fated, and there's no such thing as "luck".
"I'll keep doing things the same dumb ass way I've always done it, and my king will find me..." -The Book of Basica
The only thing hope and delusion manifest is a future where you share dick, settle for trash, and end up content instead of happy. To win at love, you have to Spartan Up, be strategic, and be WISE!
THE MALE AGENDA: I want to see her so I can get to know her and figure out if I want what I actually want: sex, something serious, or nothing at all.
THE MALE THOUGHT PROCESS: In order to see her, I either have to convince her to go on a date or convince her to meet up casually.
If his aim is sex: Then there are certain tricks that men have used since they were teenagers to speed up the process. Some men love bomb to form a deep connection, some men lie to form a deep connection, and some men pour their hearts out to form a deep connection. Rarely will a man say “I just want to fuck,” because pretending to like a woman is easier and less offensive than honesty.
If his aim is a serious relationship: Then there are certain tests a man’s going to run without a woman knowing, that will separate her into three categories: Just Pussy. The Wifey Type. Or not worth the effort at all.
“Why didn’t he want to see me again?” You weren’t worth the effort in his book.
“Why did he spend all that time just to ghost?” You were just pussy to him.
“Why is he moving so fast to lock me down?” Because he sees you as a potential wife and wants to mark his territory.
Repeat this because it’s where so many of you get confused: He wants sex, he wants seriousness, or he wants nothing at all.
That’s the GAME, but your overactive brain complicates and misreads signs. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what the fuck a man wants from you, the access he’s trying to have, or his long-term plans—YOU ARE THE BOSS.
I ask you again… What’s your price when it comes to entertaining a man? I’m not talking about prostitution or sex work; read the room.
What must a man bring to your table from the jump that gives him the right to see you and take you out? What must he do to keep taking you out and eventually earn sex?
Don’t say some dumb shit like "be nice" or “I just need consistency.” Are you slow? House plants need consistency to grow. You’re a grown fucking woman. You need something substantial, and you deserve a man who will show you, through his actions, that you’re different.
What I see out there is: Just be halfway cute, give me attention, and I'll fuck you because I don't have any other standards.
“Just love me and be loyal” isn't power; it's a basic declaration from basic women who are cool with the crumbs. Who taught you to be so soft-hearted? You need to raise your bar and actually have set actual boundaries, because a man who recognizes that you don't require shit to acquire you, your stock drops overnight.
Every day there’s a woman who gets dressed up to get attention, not from new men, but from the same guy who already made her cry. No one's going to see you as special when you make the same love-sick mistakes every other typical girl makes. Grow up!
If a man wants to date you, see you, and even become worthy enough to kiss the first or second pair of lips, then he needs to show you from the jump that he sees you as a quality woman worthy of respect, high-value treatment, and constant proof that he’s trying to win you—not just take a turn with you.
The best way to test a man is to make him put his money where his mouth is. I’m not talking about Zelling you lunch money. I’m talking about grown-man energy that proves that he’s invested in you being in his life for the long run. Hear me—LONG RUN.
Men don’t mind paying for pussy. These small bags a guy will blow to fuck you or to infiltrate your life for a season is child’s play, it's lunch money, but your thirsty ass sees it as proof of interest because you still don't have a Spartan Mindset.
Going on a few expensive dates—gets him pussy.
Flying you out or flying to you—gets him pussy.
Sending flowers or buying a pair of shoes—gets him pussy.
A couple of dollars to fast-track sex means nothing to men with disposable income! These dudes spent more on their World Cup Parlays than they spent on you.
So why do you get so off on the small stuff? EGO. When you’ve been dating guys who are paycheck-to-paycheck or rebounding from an ex who used to ask you for money, of course those things seem impressive. Of course, that kind of lightweight tricking boosts your ego.
He likes you. He takes you out. You get to dress up. You feel good. You get fucked. At what cost? What steps did he show you one by one that proved this wasn't a waste of your time? You clearly don't listen to my books, you clearly don't read over this website before dates, you just go with the flow, and get played.
“But he did nice things for me… why would he act differently now?” is being asked in Group Chats around the world because you ladies don’t recognize the fucking game. Your egos poison your brain, and you fuck and fall in love with the wrong guys every single year.
INVESTMENT stops Heartbreak.
It’s time to aim higher and learn to drag these men into deep waters so they’ll see you as someone to be respected, not conquered.
On today’s show, I’m going to break down:
Testing a man’s generosity 4 ways: Pre-Date. During A Date. Post Date. And Over Several Dates. Don’t miss these must-use skills!
