You're smart. You're funny. You're well-rounded. But no one wants you.

There's a saying with athletes, "If you're so talented, why aren't you playing pro ball?"

The same thing applies to love: "If you're so amazing, why aren't top-shelf men committing to you?"

• Woman A: Single by choice... but not really. She has men she could date, but let's be honest, they're losers, clowns, fuckboys, or old flames. In reality, she's not single by choice; she's single because no high-value man wants her.
• Woman B: Situationship Sally... She has a friend she hangs out with sometimes. They have fun, fuck, and then they both go back to their lives. She's not happy, but she's content because even though this man isn't serious, she's less lonely when he's around.
• Woman C: Relationship Purgatory... She's committed to a man who doesn't really love her. He goes through the motions. He puts on a mask. But she knows this isn't what "love" should feel like. She'll read books, look at videos, even talk to her therapist, but the truth is she's stuck. Lonely, unappreciated, unloved.

Most women fall into these three categories, but don't see it that way. They refuse to admit that they're not getting what they want out of life when it comes to men, and today, we need to be honest so we can fix this.

The Passive Aggressive Life of A Basic Bitch

What makes a woman truly baisc? The fact that she has her phone in her hand all the time? The dumb TV shows she consumes? The endless social media scrolling? The face full of makeup? The cosmetic surgery to look like every other girl online?

No.

What makes a woman truly basic is a lack of belief in herself and control of her power. CONFIDENCE is everything. You can't be a true Spartan unless you can take a proactive stance to never accept "less than" as an option in your life. Most women claim they're confident, but they're confused. "What should I do?" or "How can I be better" are constantly on your mind, yet you have yet to evolve into someone who chooses right and always does better.

New Woman Old Dick

"This year's going to be different... I'm eating healthy, thinking healthy, and I'm not entertaining anyone who doesn't respect me..."

You're lying.

Too many of you date like this: Meet a guy, get swept up, then the guy shows his true colors, but you make excuses for him because the attention was too good. The dick was too good. The way he held you, looked at you, and told you he wanted you felt TOO GOOD... that even when you realized it was all a lie, you still couldn't let go.

You ladies play detective one day to figure out what's real and what's fake. Then you switch up and play pychologist, in order to explain why this man is a piece of shit that deserves chance after chance.

The Universe gives you the sign you've been asking for, and you double back like, "No, that's not right. I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing." Are you slow?! Every time you get proof that you need to move on, you don't see it as clarity. You see it as a chance to run back into the fire! "Wow, I can't believe. I got burnt!" You're not a victim, you're an accomplice.

Don't fix your face to call yourself a strong woman when you keep giving new chances to the same types of men. If you want better, you can't say it, you have to take action!

How To Upgrade Your Options.

"But, G.L. I don't want to walk away, I want to fix him."

The first step in upgrading your options is to know that the only way you can change a man is by replacing him with a better man, then allowing his jealously to explode to the point where he comes running back.

Can you do that? No? Because you're weak, soft, and easy to manipulate.

"I'm sorry, baby. I love you, I was just upset..." Is how you react when a man threatens to leave you for being sneaky or throwing another man in his face. You don't want to upgrade your options, you want the option you have to act right: Do you realize how crazy that sounds?

"But, G.L. I did try to upgrade, but I haven't been able to find anyone new."

Your Basic ass jumped on a dating app, got a few dates with guys who weren't impressed, and now you're ready to run back to that old thing because your ego is bruised. Cry me a fucking river.

Some of you aren't working jobs you're proud of... your life isn't exciting... maybe you put on weight over the years... and now that you're trying to date you realize: I'm not happy with myself. I don't look the way I want. I haven't achieved the goals I want to achieve. But I'm tired of being alone so let me try.

You're an unimpressive woman, trying to date the most attractive men on the dating apps, and then you go on these dates only to get ghosted afterwards. Let's be honest about what happened. This world is mental. If you don't believe you're good enough, the men sitting across won't believe you're good enough.

Don't pretend that rejection doesn't hurt. It does. You're sick of first dates, you're sick of pointless text messages, and guys who only see you as casual sex. In your depression, you do what every other basic woman does, you unblock your ex, start flirting with him again, and go backwards.

Exes or old fuck buddies, don't judge you. They don't care that you haven't gotten a new job or finished school like you said. They don't care if you gained some weight. They don't even care if you have absolutely nothing to talk about beyond dumb ass gossip, because they know who you are: Easy pussy who he doesn't have to lie to fuck.

Do you want to be the girl who keeps going backwards because she's too insecure to move forward? Or do you want to be the woman who looks in the mirror and decides to be a confident goddess who gets her happy ending? It's time to stop that dumb shit, stop being a lover girl, stop gaslighting yourself, and start standing up to these men.

Rule One: The Trap.

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