Endless app swiping, situationships, a new "first date" every month, and nothing to show for it. Each week, I'll get an email or have a Zoom coaching session, and it's, "Why is dating so hard right now?" Even when you finally land on someone who's bringing the right energy, it's a slow burn. Either a man is rushing and pressuring you way too fast, and you know it's love bombing, or he's dragging his feet for way too long, and you know he sees you as a "Placedholer".
When should you have sex? Should you be friends first? When do you post each other on social media? Everyone wants to know how to soft launch a relationship without the fear of being embarrassed the moment you tell the world about your new man.
Dating fatigue is real, and you can't keep doing the same basic, weak, lover-girl, things you did last year, expecting that you're magically going to meet the right one. Manifesting isn't magic. It's tactical. Results don't pop into existence because you want something bad enough. Winning happens when wisdom combines with strategy, and you FORCE this world to give you what you deserve. Success is snatched, never handed over.
"But there's no one out here... the guy I like is acting weird... I'm getting too old to find high-value men... all the good men are taken... maybe I'm in the wrong city to date..." Shut up and stop being a crybaby! A powerful mind conquers, while a weak mind remains conquered!
On today's podcast, I'm going to break down all of these dating questions with my special guest the legendary Black Fabio himself, Justin H, another man with his own philosophy on dating, so you can see that I'm not being biased, I'm not being too tough, and that there is no "secret formula" to win at dating in 2026. Once you know how men think and WHY men think the way they do, dating stops being hard, and it starts being a game that you can master within a matter of WEEKS.
