How can you tell if someone is truly interested in you? I’ve given you the negative signs that show you in real ways that someone isn’t into you as much as you thought. Now let’s look at dating and relationships from the positive side. Some of you are so paranoid that you’re going to be played, ghosted, cheated on, etc… that you talk yourself out of a good thing, cut people off too quickly, or refuse to date altogether. Today I want to help calm your mind with some positive reinforcement and ways to test someone’s true intent. What are signs that this isn’t a game, a hunt, or a finesse? How can you be sure that it’s not lust, short-term infatuation, or you’re not a Placeholder? Keep reading…

A Man In Love Vs. Lust

Lust feels the same as love…initially. Lust, this overwhelming feeling of wanting to see a person, be next to a person, touch that person, smell that person, fuck that person, or protect that person is a raw emotion. Internally you’re screaming and on the surface, you’re beaming. Have you ever seen that glow on a person who just got into a relationship or who just went on a good first date? It’s visible because the body can’t mask its excitement over this new prospect. All attraction starts with lust; however, lust isn’t sustainable. Raw emotions, like anger or joy, eventually lose their steam and you crash down to normal. The same is true of lust. When a man’s lust deflates, you’re not as cute, as funny, as sexy, or as fun to be around which is why you get ghosted, begin to receive poor communication, or become just something to do.

“What was I thinking?” is the reaction as lust is like a hangover where you can’t believe you were ever so into a person(For more on this read the article Spoiler Alert: He’s Not Into You). So, what’s the next level, when does the magic called “love” come into play? Love is when lust comes floating down, not crashing down, then slowly rises back up again. Love is when the honeymoon stage ends and that shallow want to have them transforms into an incurable need to be with them for the rest of your life. Love is when a man stops all excuses, sacrifices his little boy ways, and goes all out for you without you ever having to ask. Love is visual, love is physical, and love is felt not told!

“G.L. I don’t think men fall in love, they’re always selfish and pick women who do for them, they love out of convenience not real emotion,” calm down Basica, do you want to learn these keys I’m about to drop in your lap or do you want to ...

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