How do you keep a man? The Ratchet answer would be to give him the best ass he’s ever had. But those who think that are single and currently figuring out what dress to wear to the club this weekend. Women who have locked down men, and I’m not talking about 6 months, I’m talking years, those women brought something to the table much more powerful than good sex.

You think you’re pretty, you think you’re smart, I bet you think you’re the most interesting woman on the planet right? But how do men view you? I’m not talking about does he turn and look when you walk by, let’s go deeper than the physical bullshit girls use as a crutch. Does he think you’re smart? Does he find you interesting? Are you classy in his mind or just another basic broad he’s ran through? Take a moment to think about the last dude you were seriously involved with. What did he like most about you? If it was something like “My smile” or “The way I rode it” you have a serious problem.

Are you the type of woman he can spend all day talking to and has a connection deeper than the physical attraction or are you simply Pussy? And by Pussy I mean your only value to that man is to satisfy his physical needs. Your job is to make him cum. Pussy isn't just the hoe or the slut, it's also the girlfriend who we have no intention of marrying or keeping around past a year. Men love pussy, but we do not marry Pussy. A man may show Pussy off to his friends. He might buy Pussy gifts. Occasionally Pussy gets to come out of the house and get treated to dinner. Pussy even gets pregnant and becomes the Baby Mama. But he NEVER EVER marries Pussy. All men see women as Pussy initially, but after a few conversations we can decide if she’s more.

Are you the type he wifes or are you just the pussy?

Does he take you out? Stop being the drive thru hoe. Maybe he’s on hard times, going to school, trying to climb the corporate ladder or build his own brand, and his pockets aren’t built like that, it’s okay to be understanding and date low key—No Basica! Guess what? That clown has money to buy a $69.99 PlayStation game; he can scrape up a few dollars to take you to a restaurant that doesn’t have pictures on the menu. Your homgirls are single and fine dining and you’re taking Wing Stop to go, you’re not winning because you have a man, you’re losing because you have a man who keeps your low maintenance ass on Dracula duty, buried in the crib. Uber eats isn't romantic! Why are your standards so low? You're so woke, you claim you know everything, but when it comes to men you consistently act dumb as hell because deep inside you're not as well put together as you think. Your biggest insecurity is that no quality man will ever want you for real, you'll be cheated on or ghosted in favor of a woman that's prettier, has a more engaging personality, and whose pussy splashes a lot better. That's your fear--YOU AREN'T REALLY BUILT TO BE LOVED. And because no one ever taught you how to overcome that fear you're out here dating with desperation in your heart! "Date me how you want, take me nowhere, and I'll still be your down bitch because I have no other options!" In the years I've been writing books and helping real Spartans find their power, I've seen two levels of woman: Those that have standards even if it means pushing a lot of men away... and those Basicas that have zero standards because they are AFRAID they can't find another man besides the one that sees her as Placeholder Pussy. Which are you? ...look at your life and think about that... I'll wait.

You're not the woman you COULD BE, sis! Do you know the top thing men look for in women? Let me tell you this secret, we men look for

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