What are the most important things in a relationship? Financial stability, emotionally maturity, communication, and integrity. Any wise parent would tell their daughter to marry a man who is done playing, knows what he wants, and is a provider at heart. Mix all of these things in a blender, and the kind of man that brings these traits to the table most likely won’t be under 35 years of age. Let’s be all the way real, the majority of males develop slow as fuck. When your life has become swiping on one lame after another on these apps or being introduced to some man-child who still centers his life around getting lit and bullshitting with his friends, you have to get the hint. A man around your age, if you happen to be in that 22-32 year old bubble, is a work in progress.
Who has time to fix a dick and turn a fuckboy into a husband? You want a man that can come in and make your world better, teach you things, and advance your life, not some idiot whose only responsibility is making sure his Xbox controllers are charged (Spoiler alert, they’re not because he can’t even remember to do that right). Ladies, the sad reality is that more than half of you won’t be able to find the level of man you want with guys who were born the same year you were. Going older is no longer for women with Daddy issues and grey beard fetishes, it’s a viable option for any woman who wants to get serious now, not 7 years from now once these little boys decide they’re ready.
"But what if people think I'm a sugar baby? What will my parents say? How do I act and talk around someone who isn't from my generation?" Chill... I'm going to get to all of that today!
Age Does Matter
Men 18-24: Don’t take anything seriously, think they have all the answers but don’t know shit, live like they’re invincible, and want to fuck everything that moves… The chances of a man in this age range being a good partner are rare. Sexually they may be what you want, someone who can fuck you for rounds. Personality wise, they may appeal to your goofy side. But dick and jokes get old fast when your other needs aren’t being met. You would literally have to help grow him into the man you want and be willing to put up with all kinds of mistakes, cheating, and mood swings that are bound to happen while he’s trying to find himself. Even if you do succeed in taming a man like this and nurturing him until his potential pays off, it’s a 90% chance that he will take all that potential to his next relationship and be a much better man for his next woman than he ever was to you.
Men 25-32: This is where men should start to get serious about their future. For the first time life is applying pressure as they can’t get away with the bullshit they used to. More bills, more responsibilities, and the realization that they can’t hide behind mommy anymore. This is the biggest state of depression as some men fold under pressure and get desperate. This is a risk and reward period as either you will find a man who recognizes that women aren’t just sex toys and actually value relationships or you’ll find men who are looking to replace their mother with a new woman who will baby him, spoil him, and take care of him while he still tries to figure out his path. If you have ever met a woman guilty of “taking care of a man” I bet he’s in this age range.
Men 33-39: The golden era of dating is the mid to late 30s as this is where the majority of men will settle into their careers. No longer are they chasing dreams of being a rapper or trying to run some half-ass business. They have either made it on their own or settled into a company. Now that they’re financially settling in, they realize that they may have fucked up in their 20s. At this age they’re looking for women that remind them of exes or “friends” that they let get away. At the same time the relationship maturity may not be here. They say they want a girlfriend, but don’t know how to be a boyfriend. This is the hardest age range to date because you get those 2-5 year relationships that go nowhere. You get engagements that end with you giving the ring back because he’s not the man you thought he was. Sadly, this is the age where a lot of men get married only to divorce or have children they really didn’t want. Yes, they learned lessons that will make them better men, but now they have all kinds of baggage, bills, and responsibilities that could make them less than desirable for most women.
Men 40+: This is the age range where you’ll find the wealthiest men as well as the most mature. These guys have played the games, gotten all the pussy they will ever needed, and figured out their career situation. The Golden Pond of wealthy men who know how to treat women. This is where MOST of you should be dating but you're probably afraid, don't know how to attract them, or don't know what to do with these guys once you have their attention... it's time to Spartan the fuck up!
Today I’m going to go through how to attract older men, how to connect with them emotionally, and most importantly how to handle your own doubts and the judgement that comes from family or friends. Be warned that ALL older men are going to be quality catches. Sadly there are predators who feast on young women, get them pregnant, mindfuck them, and literally ruin those women’s lives because they are more savvy and know how to manipulate and gaslight better than guys your own age. I’m going to show you how to side step the trash and snatch the souls of the high value ones who bring more to the table than you can ever imagine. Are you ready to level up? Let’s begin…
The first step is...