Life could be so simple if the man you like/love/crush on would just stop playing games. Why is he so hot and cold? Why is he unwilling to fully commit? Why does he push you away only to pull you back in? Is he testing you? Is it your fault? Him Him Him, is all you think about and it's driving you crazy! Truth Bomb: The man you want doesn’t actually want you. He can say that he loves you, explain all the reasons why he needs more time, or shift the blame to you as the reason he acts the way he does, but regardless of the details, it doesn’t change the fact that you are sinking in a boat known as “Relationship Purgatory”. The dark side of dating is that for every cute social media couple there even more messy situationship couples who are trapped in one of the following:
On Again Off Again – Two people that are technically in a relationship but are always going on break then getting back together to the point where neither knows what they are anymore.
Friends With Benefits – Two people that have agreed to use each other for sex and/or company with a loose agreement that neither wants something serious.
Stalled Dating Stage – Two people that are deep into the dating stage, but no one has brought up exclusivity, therefore both remain single, frustrating the person who wants to be in a real relationship.
Unofficial Yet Official – Two people that agree not to see anyone else and do everything that boyfriends and girlfriends do, yet keeps the option for someone new open by not committing to a label or title.
Few people in those relationships listed above are happy, they're content and satisfied in the moment when they're with that person, but no woman wants to be in some half-ass relationship where she doesn't 100% know what to label it. You're giving Girlfriend Benefits to a man who isn't even sure about you-- you proud of that? You're giving Wife Benefits to a guy who doesn't even return your calls-- this the life you imagined? As you all know, I get an e...
