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I got an email last week that broke my heart. This really nice woman who has written me updates about the life and times of this guy she really likes wrote to tell me that the guy had met this girl a few weeks ago and quickly made her his girlfriend despite the fact that she thought she was first in line for the title. They were basically a couple for four months; he just didn’t want to make it official yet. Now she's alone and confused. What went wrong? I promised her I would talk about it when I got back so let’s get into it.

It’s my firm belief that everyone will find someone in life. But the hard truth is that no matter how good of a catch you think you are, there will be those who will throw your ass back in the water. What makes a guy a friend and what makes him the love of your life? Women have all kinds of types and deal breakers that confuse their blueprint. Men are far simpler to understand when determining which girl we make our Main Chick and which girl we Rehearse with. Men have Rehearsal Chicks. They aren’t side hoes, they aren’t jump offs; these are girls we meet and treat like our real girlfriends but we never give them the title. They’re simply practice, a warm up for the Main Chick we’re currently seducing or the Main Chick that we know will come our way.

Family Doesn’t Matter: I don’t care if you meet my mother. I don’t care if you and my brother are close. My cousin Dartaye told you that you’re the best girl I’ve brought around— who gives a fuck. Bringing you around my family doesn’t mean we’re in L, it means I brought you around my family. My boy once introduced two girls to his mother the same day! I shit you not because I was there for both introductions, laughing my ass off inside. “This might be the one, mommy”. My nigga! You see the way she lit up like a Christmas tree when she heard that? Meeting someone’s family can be a serious step in a relationship, but welcome to the 21st century where those kinds of noble acts have become...

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