Sometimes I neglect the fellas when talking about love and I think that’s because my friends talk about sleeping with girls, rarely do they admit to crying over girls, so I foolishly forget that it's hard out here for a good dude. There is nothing wrong with a guy being human and hurting over a girl; that’s exactly what I told a little homie who emailed me last week. He’s in college, been going out with this girl since winter, but they aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend yet. He got a call from this girl and she told him that she slept with another guy back home. He’s pissed, as he should be, he put in a lot of work and she gave it away as soon as school broke for summer. Little homie wanted me to write a blog about how women lie to good men, and use his story as a warning to all the good men out there. I had to know more, was this an ex-boyfriend she smashed? Did the two of them have sex in school or was it platonic? More importantly what made him think he was a good man to her? He tells me the girl didn’t go into detail on the guy; he was someone she met through a friend when they went out to celebrate her return home. He and the girl never had sex in school because he didn’t want to pressure her. He was a good man to her because he treated her like a princess and said all the right things. He reiterated that she verbalized that she liked him and there were no problems when they were in school, in his opinion she was “fake”. Pause.
Maybe she was a lying whore who used him to kill time between classes. I don't know her real reasons for spreading her legs. But I'm going to assume she's like most young women who meet really sweet guys... turned off. What we have here is a case of a young woman not knowing what she wants, but she does know what she doesn’t want-- him. A woman will meet a guy that’s nice, sweet, loving, and does everything right technically. On paper she would be a fool not to handcuff him. But when pressed about how much she likes him, baby girl c...
