A man is on the hunt for wifey or pussy, but at what point in the relationship will he abort that mission all together? Men can and will pass up pussy. Let's repeat that. Men can and will pass up pussy. I've been asked numerous times, "Why did he stop calling me? It was all good, we spent all this time together, and he disappeared without explanation and without trying to have sex with me". On paper it does look crazy if a man puts in time, money, and genuine effort then suddenly decides to ignore her phone calls. But it's not crazy. Crazy is a word given to things you don't understand, and to understand why the guy you were feeling gave you the cold shoulder, you have to look at yourself. Did you show signs of jealousy, get emotional over little things, try to rush a relationship, or get clingy or annoying anytime he wanted to skip a night with you to be with his boys? You cannot rely on a man to tell you where you went wrong because most men are introverted when it comes to expressing their feelings. Telling a girl "I'm not feeling you like that anymore" is harder than saying "I love you" because love needs no explanation. On the other hand telling a girl who's done nothing terribly wrong that she's not good enough, opens a can of worms that no man wants to deal with, so we run.

One woman emailed me hurt that this guy she's been seeing for a few months ceased all communication with no rhyme or reason. Fuck him, move on, right? Nope, she still wants to talk to this asshole, and was looking for a way to get him to pick up the phone and resume what they had. I can understand wanting closure as to what went wrong, but why would you want to be with a person who abandoned you? Another girl hit me with a similar story, but she was more upset that her guy didn't try to have sex. Shorty called her potential boo a "dumb bitch" for spending money on her and not once trying to hit before he started sending her calls to voicemail. Clearly this is a problem many women face, ...

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