It’s okay to grow apart, but it’s not okay if you won’t admit that it’s happened. There are so many fake, half-ass, holding on out of comfort relationships that it’s hard to tell who’s in love and who’s in denial. Having someone isn't better than being single, yet the way people hold on to dying relationships or settle for situationships you would think this was the case. Ladies, love isn't a struggle, love isn't something you have to overthink. We as men don't need more time to figure out who we want. We don't put women we want on hold. We don't tell women we want, "I can't commit until you do xyz," we lock her down! If you're currently talking to dating or exclusive but unofficial with a man realize that he's stalling for time.
There are women so in love with the idea of finding love that they take these scraps of a fake relationship and make a meal out of it. This man doesn’t really claim you, he doesn’t really spend time with you, invest in you, and he doesn’t really give a fuck if somebody else were to fuck you… but he does enough to make you think he does. All the fellas reading this know that with most girls you no longer have to commit fully, you just keep her hoping, and once she has hope, you can pillage her silly ass like a Mongolian village. You may laugh like "that's not me, me and my 'friend' have something real." No you don't. And I will prove that you're just something to do, not who he really wants to be with...
Every February I find it funny that so many women are quick to make side hoe jokes, when in reality they’re not even sure of their own relationship status. Most of you aren’t side hoes to men who have main chicks; you’re side hoes to a man that can’t even get a main chick. You’re fucking a dude that has you in placeholder position, a man who is on social media simping and shopping for someone better than you, yet you have the nerve to make fun of other women? Basica, you routinely cry over a man that doesn't want you, check your elitist attitude at the door! He's had your pussy, he's heard your life story and this nigga is still like, "I can do better than her..." The same man you're wishing would act right can't even get his DM answered by top shelf women, yet here you are in your feelings over that lame. You're a seat filler for someone who doesn't even want that seat, how pathetic is that? You’re so unique, your pussy is so bomb, yet you’re competing with imaginary main chicks, and you still can’t win. Valentine's day is a time for love for most but for some it needs to be a time for reset. You didn’t get anything for Christmas and now you’re waiting to see if you’re getting something for V-Day. Where's your power? Why does this man have you out here looking stupid?
The irony of this “side hoe” culture is that it doesn’t really reflect mainstream Hos or mistresses. Real side finesse queens don’t give a fuck about flowers the day after Valentine’s Day, they’re getting trips to the Bahamas that week just to compensate. Tiger Woods was tricking 250k watches on bitches because it was Tuesday and her pussy tasted different from his wife’s. That’s the level of Ho Tactics you can’t make internet jokes about, because even as a side, they’ve managed to do better than you when it comes to selecting winners. Today let's dive into we have so many women able to relate to bad relationships and how to walk away...
If a man’s mouth is moving he’s most likely lying. Why? Because a lot of men are immature… not all but many. The purpose of this website is to teach you not attack you for making mistakes! Becoming a Spartan starts with prevention, things to look out for so you won’t become just another victim of lies.
He’s always working… haha
He doesn’t have time to cheat… haha
I don’t care if your man is broke, ugly, working 3 jobs, and if you read a text from his boss saying he was at work— these dudes are full of shit. No one wants him but you, but he’s thirsty enough to change that by being in the inbox of these other women, promising these other women things, and talking to his friends about what to say to make sure you stay oblivious. The first step is to never put a thing past any man.
“If he does this… then it means this…” Men today are smarter than that, sis. In the era of DMs hiding another woman isn’t as easy to spot as you think. You hate dating, you hate starting over, so men know that they can be sneaky because you most likely aren’t going to break up. Text your man, boyfriend, husband, friend or whatever you call the dude that’s fucking you and Type this: I know
