It’s okay to grow apart, but it’s not okay if you won’t admit that it’s happened. There are so many fake, half-ass, holding on out of comfort relationships that it’s hard to tell who’s in love and who’s in denial. Having someone isn't better than being single, yet the way people hold on to dying relationships or settle for situationships you would think this was the case. Ladies, love isn't a struggle, love isn't something you have to overthink. We as men don't need more time to figure out who we want. We don't put women we want on hold. We don't tell women we want, "I can't commit until you do xyz," we lock her down! If you're currently talking to dating or exclusive but unofficial with a man realize that he's stalling for time.
There are women so in love with the idea of finding love that they take these scraps of a fake relationship and make a meal out of it. This man doesn’t really claim you, he doesn’t really spend time with you, invest in you, and he doesn’t really give a fuck if somebody else were to fuck you… but he does enough to make you think he does. All the fellas reading this know that with most girls you no longer have to commit fully, you just keep her hoping, and once she has hope, you can pillage her silly ass like a Mongolian village. You may laugh like "that's not me, me and my 'friend' have something real." No you don't. And I will prove that you're just something to do, not who he really wants to be with...
Every February I find it funny that so many women are quick to make side hoe jokes, when in reality they’re not even sure of their own relationship status. Most of you aren’t side hoes to men who have main chicks; you’re side hoes to a man that can’t even get a main chick. You’re fucking a dude that has you in placeholder position, a man who is on social media simping and shopping for someone better than you, yet you have the nerve to make fun of other women? Basica, you routinely cry over a man that doesn't want you, check your elitist at...