Nobody enjoys dating. The process of meeting new people. Do you wait for someone to approach you in public? Do you jump on a dating app? Do you take things into your own hands and shoot your shot by flirting with that guy at the gym or by sliding in the DMs of that cute guy who always likes your pictures? Even after you meet someone, then you have to actually “date” which means going out and getting to know them. Are they a texter or a talker? Do they want to go out on a proper date or are they trying to Netflix and chill you? How many dates before it’s official? How many dates before sex? Should you or shouldn’t you date more than one person at a time? The life of a single person is full of anxiety because they overthink everything listed above. I wrote numerous books on how to date step by step, yet so many women have yet to Spartan Up and apply these rules to their lives, some have used these tools others haven't...
You may be one of those who don't have time to read or listen to an audio book of mine, or you may just be of the mindset of "I DON'T NEED ADVICE, I GOT THIS". I've helped women for nearly a decade and the lazy or stubborn type NEVER win they ALWAYS settle. They either sit on the bench and wait for some guy to fall in their lap or they keep recycling the same penis they’ve known for years because the devil they know can’t truly break their heart.
Let’s cut to the root of the problem—TRUST. You don't want to meet a new man that seems great then turns out to be more of the same, so you play it safe and boring. I get it. Men are sneaky, flaky, and filled with contradictory behavior, so you never know who wants you or wants to use you. "Tell men how to be REAL men," I already do that, I’ve even written a book for them (fellas click here), but let’s keep it real, preaching to men won’t save YOU. The solution isn’t to fix the broken males, it’s to hop over the trash men so you can attract and secure a quality one. The first step in that is k...