Should women approach men? The majority of females would answer “Hell no,” then comment that if I man wants you, he will always make the first move. In their mind, to approach a man is considered “chasing” a man, and that’s not ladylike. Actively going after what you want is seen as “doing too much” again, that’s not ladylike. Some will even claim to know men who have said, “I don’t like aggressive women,” or “I look at her as easy if she engages with me first,” and use those anecdotes as proof that it’s better to stay to yourself and wait to be chosen. Ha!
"Never approach a man first" is propaganda pushed by women who want to stay in their comfort zones for women already in their comfort zones. Sit around, wait for a man, and pray that you get married one day... in the meantime you end up talking to guys who do CHASE you then GHOST you. That makes you even more bitter, but you don't change your method, you just keep waiting. You say fake-deep stuff like "I'm working on myself" as an excuse for not being aggressive. How are you working on yourself when you refuse to evolve and change the way you approach meeting new people? Just because a guy crushes on you or lusts after your pussy, doesn't mean he's better than a man who you had to DM or speak to first. You've being brainwashed to be passive in your own life.
Jesus will send you a man. Use a vision board to make a man pop out of thin air with all the qualities you want. Do your hair different, that's what's been holding you back. Wait until next month's crescent moon. All these gimmicks say the same thing-- be a Pick Me. You're not manifesting a healthy relationship, you're not attracting love, you're sitting on your ass wishing for easy results! The result of this old school weak bitch waiting game is that you do get a man, but it's rarely one you want, just one you settle for because you're sick of waiting for your "type" to notice you.
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