I’m the type of girl who only attracts liars and clowns.
I’m the type of girl who only attracts guys with girlfriends.
I’m the type of girl who only attracts guys who don’t want to commit.
I’m the type of girl who only attracts men who are damaged.
I’m the type of girl who only attracts crazy or jealous men.
You're annoyed by the kinds of men who shoot their shot at you. But the men that TRY to get you aren't the problem. The men that DO get you are. Be upset all you want with the level of men who keep knocking at your door, but you need to have that same energy and be upset with yourself for opening the fucking door in the first place to the same types of men over and over again. "I give up on men, none of them are hitting like that, they're all trash." Okay, statistically speaking that's impossible. So are you done being a brat? Cool. Then let's look at what's really going on in your universe.
The Law of attraction isn't like applying for a job. There is no effort, no hoops to jump through, no squeezing your eyes shut and wishing real real hard. It happens with no free will required. When your subconscious mind and conscious mind are in alignment, you become a magnet for whatever experience you feel you deserve--positive or negative. Just like the law of universal gravitation keeps your feet pinned to the ground, the law of attraction keeps pulling people into your life based on what's going on with you internally. This isn't about punishments, karma, or star positions, it's simple. Your mind pumps millions of thoughts a day, negative or positive, confident or fearful, determined or defeated. Your mind creates a world based on your most dominant thoughts and a pattern slowly forms. So what does your pattern say about your life? Currently? Are you winning or losing? Are you confident or insecure? Other people aren't determining your happiness or success, you are.
You no longer want a Future, you want your Russell. You no longer want to be the girl that walks through the club and a guy tries to palm her ass, you want to attract men who have respect for you. You know longer want the excitement that comes with a cocky guy that lives fast, you want to actually sit around and do boring ass things with someone who is stable. As you grow and mature, the young shit you used to like doesn't impress you, you want a new dating pool not the same old bullshit. So what's stopping you? You are. The hustle that these LOA books try to teach you is that you can just think positively and change over night. Nah. It took weeks, months, even years for your dominant thoughts to become dominant, and it'll take that long to reverse course depending on what's going on subconsciously. Before we get into the men you're attracting let's start with the easier example of money.
You say you want more money, but your thoughts tell you that it's hard to earn more money than what you're used to getting weekly. You see things going on in the external world that prove that money is hard to make for everyone not just you. You become content with this world you've created and except the rule that money comes and goes and there's never enough. The pattern then becomes that all the money you attract disappears as soon as you make it, and that's just how it is until you get lucky. The irony is that when you hack your mind, hope, pray, and focus on something you really want to buy or do, without rhyme or reason, you come into money you weren't expecting. You call this a miracle, random, or god working in mysterious ways. You spend that money on whatever it is you needed it for, and go back to normal. Your brain doesn't put the pieces together that it wasn't an external force or magical powers looking out for you, it was a universal law. You attracted wealth in a moment of desperation, you broke from your pattern to allow for abundance. Then just as soon as it happened, you're back to calling it a fluke because you don't understand alignment.
When you use words like "miracle" or "angels" or "luck". You give power to superstition and mystery. When your entire world is built on a foundation of Hail Mary prayers or lucky breaks, you never become a master of your fate. You become a master of reacting when your back is against the wall, not a proactive creator of circumstances and good fortune. A person that looks at their bank account and it's low, dwindling weekly, or overdrawn, that feeling of being poor or losing money vibrates stronger than lying to yourself about "I'm going to be rich one day". Your alignment isn't off, it's on, but it's set in the wrong direction. Your delusion is that you will make it, but your dominant thoughts, the ones that are aligned and ruling your life, tell you that things will never change.
Think about this negative mindset in terms of dating. Your pattern is that you always attract someone who doesn't want you the way you want them or you attract those that you aren't into as much as they're into you. Make a wish for someone different, really focus on breaking the pattern and getting someone worthwhile but who isn't an asshole. What happens? You meet that person who is different, but your negative thoughts yell, "It's not going to work out, he's hiding something, this is too good to be true..." and this man who you attracted and the relationship you were about to build crumbles under the weight of your own paranoia.
You say you hate your results, but what are you doing to change them. Do you meditate? Do you change your avatar's appearance? Do you seek out therapy? Most importantly do you know how to stop the current pattern of your thoughts and take control of what you attract? I'll answer that shit for you. The answer is "no."
You like dating men that play games with your head, because you want to prove to yourself that you can train a bad boy to treat you good.
You like dating men with girlfriends because you want to prove to yourself that you can compete and win over the next bitch.
You like dating men who hurt your feelings, because deep down you're a masochist and think you're not worthy of love.
You like dating men who aren't physically or financially on your level, because you think that being better than them means they won't hurt or leave you.
You like dating men and then running away once they get too close, because your abandonment issues refuse to let you drop your guard.
You like dating toxic men, because you're toxic too.
Show me a list of the last four men you've dated, fucked, or have been in a relationship with, and I'll show you a pattern that proves that it's not external factors at play, but your internal thoughts that are ruining your ability to connect and become happy.
You were given a limitless mind and instead of flexing your power you've chosen to limit yourself. "Where do these women find men that spoil them... Where do these women find men that love them unconditionally... How are these women winning while I'm still struggling?" Get off of their dicks, and look in the mirror. You're trying to fly with a broken wing. You have daddy or mommy issues you refuse to address. You have trust issues that you are afraid to open up. You have physical hang ups that have lowered your self-esteem. You have attitude problems, jealousy fits, and so much internal anxiety that it is literally impossible for you to ever get out of your own way and allow the kind of love other women receive without effort.
"G.L. why do ugly men always approach me? Why would they even think they had a chance with me?"
Because they do have a chance! Let's be honest, you all can thirst over various celebrities, but you will eventually date down. It's not about being bored, it's about that little inside voice telling you, "Why not? What do you have to lose with this ugly nice guy who actually pays attention to me."
"G.L. why are these dirty hood dudes always in my DMs, can you take a look and tell me what vibes I'm giving off."
I don't need to look at your pictures, I already know that you're the kind of woman that dates those men. You get off on fighting, you like when a man puts you in place, and your pussy gets the wettest while being choked out after makeup sex. You are inherently ratchet no matter how many stamps you have in your passport and those men can smell someone like you that wants to be thugged out.
This month alone, I've received emails from women who have gone back to exes because they don't think they can do better. A woman who thinks her boyfriend is disgusting and overweight, but agreed to his proposal because she doesn't think she can do better. A woman who didn't even date girls a year ago, who is now settling for a lesbian relationship because she doesn't think there is a such thing as a good man. A woman who keeps getting cheated on is asking me if it's worth staying because he's an athlete who helps her out with bills. So many beautiful women who attract ugly situations because they have one thing in common, they do no BELIEVE they are good enough to do anything but settle or be exploited.
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