Men are masters of catch and release: I see her. I want her. No, it’s not going to work out. She will want too much from me… loyalty, communication, emotional support. See, men make it seem as if women wanting money, vacations, and luxury is the problem. Nah. It’s not money it’s the other things that scare a man off, it’s the mental aspect of dating.
99% of men have been hurt in the past and they carry that inside because as men, we don’t like to open up and seem weak. You will never know who hurt us but you will feel it when we pick you up, play with you, then toss you back to the street… ladies open your ears because what I’m about to drop on you will save you a lot of pain chasing behind insecure males.
Instead of admitting his pain and anxiety a man will instead place the blame on women. You are the problem because blah blah fucking blah! Pick Me girls will listen to this lie and baby a man, suck his dick, and try to fix him. He’s not going to love you for being his submissive doormat Basica! One of the biggest finger pointing complaints I see in males isn’t money, it relates to dating and relationships. “Women Today Aren’t Built Like My Mom’s Generation! They’re all gold diggers with attitudes and little patience,” Yawn! Mentalities like that is why the dating pool is so toxic.
-Bitches today are only concerned with money.
-Bitches today expect men to do all the work in terms of dating.
-Bitches today aren’t loyal and put way too much stock in clout chasing.
The list of negative male assumptions goes on and on depending on how misogynistic that man is.
Many of you don’t have Dad’s or role models, just the internet or toxic friends who also come from poor family foundations. I want every man to read this with an open mind and every woman to read it even closer as many of you deal with insecure men and don’t even recognize the signs.
Ladies you can’t heal a hurt man, you can only put a mirror up to him so he can help himself!
The first sign of insecurity in a man is easy to spots just look for at his past. Who does he date and why did he date her?
Grown Man Vs. Little Boy
A boy will lead on in order to conquer a girl he barely likes. He will hide his emotions to safeguard against a girl he likes too much. He will even go back to the same girl over and over again, off and on, on and off, only to realize what he already knew—she’s not the one. Why? Each one of these moves are emotionally safe and keeps him from being hurt.
-Only sleeping with women you have no emotional connection with makes it easier to ghost her or keep her in the situationship bubble.
-Playing it cool with a woman you really like to the point where you downplay your feelings and sabotage the connection keeps your heart guarded from the eventual pain that comes with that woman not feeling the same way about you that you feel about her.
-Going back to an ex that you know is weak and thirsty for your love keeps you in power. You control her mind, she’s too “dick dumb” to realize you don’t want her, therefore the power dynamic remains in your favor because she will never be strong enough to hurt you in the ways you can hurt her.
What’s the point of these games in the first place? SAFETY! 99% of men have gone through some kind of hurt in the past when it comes to women. No matter who you are, how you look, or how much wealth you now have, there was a woman or maybe even multiple women that rejected you or betrayed you, and it still hurts. “Bro, that was high school let that hurt go…” isn’t going to make someone heal. Once that hurt turns to anger and that anger turns to distrust, a bitter man is born and words alone won’t give him the power to reset his past and evolve his mind.
Every time he swipes on an app, goes to DM a pretty girl on social, or is introduced to a potential love interest, the pain comes roaring back and he goes on the defensive: I don’t trust this bitch, so let me throw on this mask and get her before she can get me…
Ladies that handsome guy who you match with on an app or who creeps into your DM isn’t the universe blessing you, often times it’s a test. Do you know how to tell a mentally secure man from a pussy hunter? You start with…
