You fucked up. You met a guy and were too nice, too compromising, too understanding, and didn’t set boundaries. Now he’s in the position of power, no longer chasing you like the trophy you are. When women get soft, men get comfortable and either take advantage or take her for granted. The power dynamic in a relationship should never be one where the woman is confused and trying to make a man “act right.” If you’re stressing over a man you aren’t dating like a Spartan, you’re dating like a Basica, and need to hit reset ASAP!

I write a lot about the dating stage, pre-dates, first dates, sex dates, etc… my books are there to be used step by step. However, a lot of you are currently in relationships where you didn’t set your value or are currently in the dating stage with someone who you feel is better than you. Stop the fucking madness. When you allow these men to bully, brag, and bitch check you into thinking that they are the table and you should be happy to have a seat, you lose.

Power isn’t about being masculine, it’s about intelligence. A wise woman understands that men are controlled by lust and obedient to sex. Look at history, at all these powerful men who were taken down or bankrupted because they couldn’t keep their dick in their pants. Men chase money to attain things that make them more attractive to women. Intelligent women know these things, they use this intel to mentally whip men before they even give up any pussy. These Basicas chase dick because they think it’s rare, in reality these dudes are as common as a sale at Sephora. You think he’s special? Why? Because he’s halfway cute and gives you attention? What’s so damaged inside of you that you don’t want more for yourself? Today I’m going to show you how to hit reset, and show these men that you aren’t the basic bitch who rolled over and allowed him to do what he wanted. It’s a new day, and he’s going to learn to respect you, worship you, and bend the fucking knee.

Part 1: Resetting The Foundation

How do you go from weak to powerful overnight? Simple, you...