Ladies, if you're in the dating game you will meet two main types of fuck boys-- the first is loud, passionate, and nothing is ever his fault, "Baby Boy" just like in the John Singleton film. The second is the "Tortured Soul Bad Boy" this is the one that represses those emotions at first, in order to come off as the emotionally unavailable type. He does care and is very available, but he’s using his “I’m deep and tortured, nobody understands me” act to get you to run and jump on his dick. It’s a cry for attention from a weak man, but most girls are too blind to see it through their own need for validation.
These fuck boys will do something wrong like stand you up for a date, ignore your calls for a few days, or if you’re in a relationship decides he wants to do him and not even let you in on his game plan. You get upset, you voice your beef with those kinds of actions, and what does he do? He sucks his teeth, “whatever,” then dodges the entire argument by making you feel guilty for even arguing with him in the first place. This is why I don’t get close too girls = Stop yelling at me, or I’m going to fall back. You don’t even understand what I’m going through = Don’t hate me hug me. I don’t have time for this, hit me when you calm down = I’m a spoiled brat that does what I want, once you accept that, then come back to me in check. Those are just a few of the reactions of over emotional men that play the cool role. But they all do the same thing, they Gaslight you into forgiving him, and submitting to his control. The scary part of this is that a lot of you are emotionally scared and that kind of PUSH AND PULL tactic works. Instead of blocking these fuckboys, you rush back to them, and the game starts all over again.
The deeper you get into a relationship with a fuckboy the more comfortable he gets gaslighting you and emotionally abusing you. Let's say you confront a Fuck Boy you've been dating for awhile about treating you wrong. At this point he knows you in and out and what buttons to push, most importantly, he knows that you're not Spartan enough to walk away. You curse him out or accuse him, all he has to do is yell at you: Why you on that bullshit again? You ain’t my mother, you ain’t even my girl! = Bitch back up off me. I told you where I was going? Oh, so you calling me a liar? So you are calling me a liar? Yes *clap* Or *clap* No *clap*? = Don’t bring facts about what was said because I can run around the question like this all day. Delete my number! Don’t follow me on nothing, don’t call me crying, I’m done with your drama = Keep trying to tell me to do right and I’m just going to go do wrong with another girl.
A fuck boy will bully you into letting him get away with murder, make you think you're in the wrong, then he will throw his dick in you and fuck you like he just got out of jail, and there will be something inside you that actually likes that, that sees that as exciting, and you'll probably cum, not because the dick is good but because mentally you like to argue, be dominated, and put in your place. Here's the problem, being weak for a soft man who can only get tough with women is NOT YOUR PLACE. I know it's hard to reverse trauma, but it's not natural to get a rush out of being hurt. Let's move on to the next sign to look for and that's a man who o...
