Don't Be Ashamed That You Got Played... Become Wiser

Get your popcorn ready. Let's go back in time to when this girl wrote me with the most epic cautionary tale. The girl-- let’s call her Kay, met this guy-- let’s call him Jay, at an upscale event. Jay was a polished and professional business owner, but despite his lavish lifestyle, she didn’t get open off the whining and dining. She dated Jay for four months, and during that time, she fell for him pretty hard. She thought enough time had passed that she could let down her guard and have sex with him, and then this happened:

Last Thursday, we went to one of my favorite restaurants. I had a great time. I was feeling it. He knew it too, and knew when we got back to my place it was about to go down. (I mean I hadn't had sex in four months!) So he dropped me off at the door and "went to look for a parking spot." I came upstairs to my apartment and waited to buzz him back in. It took a little longer than usual but street parking is ridiculous here, so it didn't seem too suspect.

Anyway, he rang the bell and I buzzed him in. Fast forward, we started fucking like rabbits. About 20minutes in, he stops and says "babe you hear something at the door?" And I say "no". But he stops to "go check it out" but comes back, says he didnt see anything, and we keeping going.

When we were done, I got up to grab some water and I notice that ALL of my electronic shit is GONE: MacBook, iPad, iPhone, iMac, camera…. The only thing left was the big ass tv mounted on my wall. I WAS ROBBED. I looked at my door, there was no forced entry but it was unlocked. So immediately I thought, his dumb ass came to check the door when we were fucking and forgot to lock the door, then some bold nigga took the opportunity to rob me.

I called my best friend who stays across the hall to see if he saw anything. When I described the night, he was alarmed because when I told him about *** parking the car and coming up for us to have sex, he said it seemed strange because he saw *** coming into the building with two of his brothers. He thought I was having one of my usual house gatherings and that I invited all three of them over.

So I'm guessing you've already came to the conclusion: yep, when that nigga stopped to "check out the sound heard at the door" he was really just unlocking the door for his brothers to come in to steal my shit while I was getting dicked down. Nigga was fucking me and stealing from me SIMULTANEOUSLY!!! The first time I fuck him, he robs me blind…

The crazy thing is, this guy isn’t an anomaly; he’s the norm. Her story is extreme, but every day a relationship ends with a robbery. Kay had her iPad taken. Most women have their dignity, trust, and sometimes their virginity taken by scum like Jay. Right now, there are thousands of intelligent women being set up by men who aren't half as smart. How is this possible? Is it the sex, the looks, or maybe they are criminal masterminds? I’m convinced that 98% of these heartbreakers aren’t Keyser fucking Söze, they’re regular guys who have one critical attribute—The Bullshit Factor.

Male Hos Vs. Female Hos

The Art of Bullshit isn’t about how good your lie is, it’s about how convincingly you tell that lie. Female Hoes sell sex, Male Hoes sell dreams. If I am a predator, I’m going to approach a girl I find promising, size her up, get to know her, and use that knowledge to exploit her ass. If she’s broke, she’ll probably get open if I tell her how much money I have. If she has money, she’ll probably get open on how well-read I am. Most women either want a wealthy man who can instantly change their lives or a man who is their equal, and they can partner with and be a power couple.

If the girl is basic or ratchet she just wants the vibes: Fun, Dick, taking pics to show her other ratchet friends she's back OUTSIDE.

Predatory men use texting, dates, even your dating profile to sniff out which one you are:

Low Hanging Fruit with money but no man... he has a gameplan for your ass

Cinderella looking to glow up and hit the lottery with a high-value man... he has an entire story planned out.

Young party girl or turnt-up little Thotty? ...he's going to love bomb you the quickest cus you're light work.

Not all men are interesting, rich, and intelligent. So, like most dudes on the internet: They have to fake it until they make it. Here's how Male Ho's lie without making it an OBVIOUS lie. First, he...