If a man is in a relationship or simply dating multiple women at the same time, he’s a player, a pimp, a stud, “the man”. A guy’s power to lure in several women at once and keep them organized is what young boys dream of. When I was a kid my Uncle told me, “Have as many Girlfriends as you can afford”. But even that’s gone out of the window with the modern day woman who don’t require a dinner and a movie. So now it’s “Have as many Girlfriends as you can stomach”. I’ve never been the type of guy to mess with more than four girls at one time, not because I’m morally pure, I just didn’t have patience for– clicking over on my phone and hearing “fuck you gotta call me back for? Who you talking to?”
If a woman is in a relationship or simply dating multiple men at the same time, she’s a slut. That’s the end of conversation. It doesn’t even matter if she’s having sex with them, to the outside world its like, “wow… you’re out there sucking all of those dicks”. This is why females invented something to get around this it’s called “I Talk To…” No woman is ever truly man free; they’re always “talking to someone”. A man never says that, instead we’re “fucking with…” a chick. To say “Talking” when you’re a guy sounds soft, like you can’t seal the deal. To say “Dating” sounds like you’re a trick, spending money on a hoe that you’ve haven’t smashed yet. Let’s break it down further.
Talking: Conversating, going out with, nothing serious
Dating: Going out with, chilling at the crib with, something may be there
Seeing: That’s your boo.
Trying To Fuck With: Got the number putting in work.
Fucking With: Took her out, invested time.
We Cool: Had sex, may have sex again, but if not, it’s all good, got what I wanted.
The thing I find amusing about girls is that they can’t like two people the same way. Say a girl is “talking to” 3 guys and then one of them steps up and she starts Dating him. Those other two guys get the shaft, I mean yeah she’ll talk to them and even keep her blossoming relationship a secret, but those other guys now get ten minute phone calls, and it takes a few hours to return their texts because she’s focused on the person who’s winning her heart. That’s an amazing thing. Sure she’s keeping these two guys around as a backup penis, but mentally she’s passed them over and it’s just a matter of time before she stops answering their calls and those guys get put on “facebook” duty.
Men are greedy. If we find a new girl that we want to handcuff, those other girls don’t go anywhere because we still want to smash them. If anything we get more confident. I had way more sex when I had a girlfriend then times when I was single. When you have a girl you’re comfortable, pussy is no big deal because it’s at your beck and call so you don’t hold back when talking to other girls. A guy in a relationship is doing triple summersaults with a safety net, he’s fearless. It’s interesting really, because now you can talk any kind of way you want to when dealing with those other girls, tell them you’re not taking them out, call them when it’s convenient to you, and ignore their calls at will, because you don’t care. You would think a woman would be like “fuck him, acting brand new”. But they don’t. For the most part women like assholes, they may not know why you’re being a d-bag, but it’s exciting to them. That’s why it’s hard to let them go even if you are starting to catch feelings for your main chick. It’s like you’re telling me I can have a main chick who I hang with all the time, then have side chicks who I can talk to any kind of way and call at all hours of the night and they’ll be down for whatever, all I have to do is put up with the occasional “teeth sucking” and “you ain’t shit” comment? Sign me up!
Of course that’s a fun life, and I know a lot of people that still live life like that, but eventually someone finds out and it all crumbles, but it’s a win because you lived the life of Hugh Hefner for a few months and are now free to start that process back over. Females are smarter than Males. They cherish relationships so they’re not going to be that reckless. But at the same time, women have urges and temptations to.
A woman won’t cheat with the guy she’s been “talking to”. She’s going to cheat with a new guy or someone from the past that comes back into the picture. But here’s the key difference. A chick will tell the guy that she has a man. A man can’t say that because 80% of females don’t want to be the other woman. 99% of men don’t mind being the other guy, because in our minds we’re not sharing, we’re “fucking” his wifey, in the words of Carlito—that’s cool. So why is she a slut and he’s not? They’re both being horn balls, they’re both violating trust. It’s because of the word FUCK. For another woman to say “That’s why I fucked your man” means nothing, it’s saying you allowed yourself to be penetrated by someone who is committed to someone else. She’s the idiot for being smutted out. A Main Chick could care less if you “got the dick” because that’s not a woman’s main goal in a relationship. On the flip side, for a Man to tell another man “That’s why I fucked your bitch”. That’s the ultimate insult in the world and the reason Tupac is dead.
MAN: You let him fuck you? You’re a nasty hoe! We’re done!
Woman: You fucked her? You trifling! Wait until we get home!
Everyone can forgive cheating, but a Man has pressure from his friends, he can’t be with a girl who EVERYONE knows cheated on him. A Woman can forgive despite her friends talking shit… unless she says: “That’s why your man brought me this bag, gave me gas money, took me to eat, and paid my rent!”. Now that’s the worst thing a woman can find out. A woman can accept you falling into some pussy, but she will never accept you giving another bitch money that should have gone to her… EVER!
Moral of the story, cheating is wrong either way, but if you’re going to do it, Women—don’t get caught. Men—don’t get caught tricking for it.