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I want to dive into something that a lot of you don’t even want to think about, let alone talk about. We’re living in a world where STDs run rampant, and no matter your sexual standards or how safe you are, it can happen to you. HIV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and all kinds of new shit that pops up in pictures on Facebook feeds are the monsters under our bed we refuse to acknowledge. Over the years, I’ve talked to male and female readers in confidence about their problems in regards to dating with STDs, but it’s time to help those who aren’t able to speak to me one on one about this dilemma.

Most people know at least one person who had or has an STI or STD, still, the typical mind only think about these things after a wild night when they went raw and wake up suddenly religious and praying they didn't get burnt. The truth is millions of people live with incurable STI/STDs, yet they hide in the shadows unsure of how to attain real love. Instead of it being something we judge, it should be something that we address, and let those men and women know that they can still find love and happiness if they refuse to live like a prisoner of circumstance.

We all know to use condoms and we all know that you should get to know a person for real, before you put your life in their hands, but nobody really listens to that shit. When I was growing up in Baltimore, the Shangri La of STDs, I was paranoid as hell about sex. I grew up seeing TLC rocking condoms on their clothes, Magic Johnson and Eazy-E in the news, and you get the message that “have sex and die.” Nevertheless, when you grow up and see Magic still outliving most motherfuckers and no one you know dropping dead, the "safe sex" message fades. Condoms are only used on side hoes or jump-offs, and main chicks get the raw treatment always, or what’s the point of making a chick your girlfriend... That's called hood logic. While I was fortunate enough to never catch anything, nearly all of my boys had to take that trip to t...

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