Your heart wasn't the first heart to be broken, but to listen to you carry on about all the ways you've been hurt you would think you invented pain.
The difference between those women that conquer heartbreak and grow stronger, and the ones who bitterly hold on to that hurt has nothing to do with DNA. Your Daddy never told you men sell girls dreams like every day is Black Friday, oh well! Her Daddy never told her either, but she figured it out, adjusted, and now eats men for breakfast! Her mental toughness isn’t an exception, but your mental weakness makes excuses as if other women are embedded with special “zero fucks given” microchips. No one skipped over you and forgot to give you strength, you CHOOSE to be soft because being strong requires actual work. For every weak bitch problem I hear, I know a Strong Woman example where a female overcame a man’s bullshit by not crumbling into a victim. A strong woman doesn’t revel in pity, she pushes on. A strong woman doesn’t make excuses for her mistakes, she makes amends. A strong woman doesn’t take her heart and run home, she stays in the game and dares a nigga to try to fool her the same way twice! A Spartan isn’t born with a strong heart, she develops it!
The majority of women reading this have an explanation for every bad relationship they've been though, a side of the story that will garner sympathy and support, and make her an exception to the rules of love. Bitch, please. Your story is undoubtedly the same as thousands of women across this planet! She overcame the same backstory as you, and found true love. You are sitting there still mad, on the internet, being a victim and saying stupid shit like "Dating sucks" or "Marriage is outdated" because you aren't built like the woman who picked herself up and manifested a better romantic life. You are to blame for your life's choices! Your mindset is to blame for your life's choices! It’s time to stop pointing the finger at the man, the situation, even yourself and understand the "why" of your behavior so you can finally move the hell on. Let's begin with the first step to getting your shit together. There are two categories that men put women in the first is...