Dick is abundant, low value, and the men attached to it are usually clowns. But if you block him, only to end up unblocking every time he makes you upset, then you're in the circus too. You're asking your friends, family, and ChatGPT, "What does this mean?" "Why is he acting like this?" "What should I say to him?" because you still think men are the prize. You're not strong, you're not in control, you're soft and reactionary, and these men keep playing in your face because all you project is low vibraitonal "please love me" energy.
It's time to Spartan The Fuck Up.
Your love life is a broken record. You meet a guy, act like you don't like him, then a week later, you're planning an entire future in your head, based around him, him, him... all because of what? These men are rarely impressive. You're just desperate. Lies sound like music and excuses read like poetry when you're hard up for love.
A man is never too busy to spend time with a woman he actually likes... but there you go believing that his work schedule makes it impossible for him to see you.
Valentine's Day isn't just a holiday, it's a chance to plan and show you how much he cares... but there you go getting shortchanged, no card, no chocolate, no flowers. That's not your man, princess; that's someone insulting your intelligence.
Every February, I get a spike in women coming to me for advice. Why?
The "happy being single" crowd realizes that they're lying to themselves and DO want love. The "situationship" ladies finally wake up and realize that being friends with benefits is basic and degrading. "I just want sex too, I'm not looking for anything serious." Bitch, you're lying. You think your grandmother would be proud that you're Delivery Pussy for a random man? Nevertheless, the most disrespected group of women this time of the year are those who are dating or in a relationship and realize they're not appreciated, valued, or worth the effort of planning something special.
I once saw a video of a 16-year-old decorating his girlfriend's locker on Valentine's Day… you're dealing with a grown ass man who couldn't be bothered to send flowers to your house?
Men learn from an early age what it means to be romantic and show out for a woman; we don't need to be trained! So if a guy isn't showing up for you, it's ON PURPOSE. The little voice in his head thinks about you and decides: Nah, she ain't worth it. Why would you ever fuck someone on February 15th who ignored your texts on February 14th?
Don't ever fix your lips to tell a man "I love you" if he can't be bothered to show up, show out, and make you feel special!
The first step in getting better results is being honest with why you're attracting low-value treatment.
Your friends or co-workers ask, "What are you two doing for Valentine's Day?" and you get embarrassed. Either you lie, or you act like you don't care about it. Once again, throwing on a mask to protect your feelings because you know damn well it's not just a holiday, it's a test: Does this guy I've been giving all this energy to really like me enough to prove it with romantic effort?
The answer on Februrary 14th will be "no" he doesn't fuck with you like that, dummy.
The answer on your birthday will be "no" he doesn't fuck with you like that, dummy.
The answer for the rest of your life will continue to be "no" because you date without power, entertain men who secretly think you're a joke, and project Placeholder Energy.
How many more years are you going to front like you're okay with being overlooked, unappreciated, and unloved? How many first dates, fuck buddies, Instagram stalking, breakups, and sleepless nights before you finally take control and Spartan Up?
If you're going to be single, have a roster of men who can do for you. If you're going to be in a relationship, it should be with a man who moves with action, not a bunch of talk. If you're going to be a side ho, a mistress, "friend with benefits", at least deal with a man that can take you to Chanel or buy you a Van Cleef bracelet!
On today's show, I'm going to give a sermon on how to get your love life in order and lead with power no matter if you're single, "have a friend," or are in a full blown relationship. School's in session.
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