I have a friend who hates that I give women advice. He’s the type that will randomly text me something from my books late at night and say, “These bitches aren’t this smart, but go off and keep trying to save them.”

It’s funny to me, but it’s sad at the same time because men don’t think you all are capable. I’ll admit, even when I tell women what to look for, how to move, and share proof of success… There will STILL be those who will always choose to be dumb over dick rather than play this game from a position of power. I don’t get mad, I get motivated. For every woman who lives up to the “chase a dick” stereotype, I need to see ten Spartans rise up!

Here are a few things that most of you have forgotten that will keep you honest… read, don’t skim, because I want to live in a world where men respect a woman’s intelligence, not play in your face and refer to you as “dumb bitches”.

Things Women Forget About Sex

As a woman, you will always be objectified. Men don’t “like” you, nor do they think you’re “cool”. Every compliment a man lays at your feet is meant to disarm you, drop your guard, and allow him to get closer to you. Why? So he can fuck you.

A man will try to press you fast to fuck you quick. A man may wait and pretend to be your friend so he can fuck you later. It doesn’t matter how he moves and what tactics he’s using to win you over. Understand that your ONLY VALUE is your pussy. 99% of straight men are NOT nice to women just because… they have agendas that most of you miss until it’s too late. Go ahead. Think about it and stop me when I’m telling lies.

You know this stuff; you’ve known it since you were at least 22 years old. But you forget this when a man checks your boxes of attraction: Funny. Handsome. Charismatic. Successful.

When you meet a man who is your type, you believe that he respects you, likes you, and wants you for who you are, not what’s between your legs. You lie to yourself in order to let the idea of love blossom. You become delusional in order to allow romance to take hold. Disney fantasy takes over a grown woman’s intelligence, and guess what happens?

The moment a man attacks you with romance and you forget about the nature of men, you lose your power over him and are now trying to hold on to him because he’s convinced you that he’s “rare”. He will fuck you. He will act differently. Maybe not at first, but just wait for it… and then you’re left starting back over, feeling stupid. In the end, a man didn’t outsmart you; he just played along as if he liked you, and because you have this huge hole in you that needs validation, you allowed that man to outwit you until you were just another notch in his belt.

Look at you, Princess Ego. Back in the day, you had men figured out; now you’re getting older and more desperate… “I could never be dumb over a man” became “I can’t believe I fell for his lies” because you got dick whipped and mentally manipulated into believing this man could give you the happy ending you always wanted. I don’t care what a man tells you in pursuit of your vagina– the wrong head is in control, so everything is CAP.

Sometimes “I love you” means I want to bust a nut in you for a few months. BUT. Eventually, that lust wears off, and he falls back. Every man knows this, but I’m the only one willing to be honest about how they see you. This isn’t to make you depressed. Don’t lower your head and accept that. It should inspire you to learn to avoid it by being smarter than he is.

Why did he have to lie if he only wanted sex? Why have all of those deep conversations? Why plan things? Why would anyone do the most just to have sex?

Because sex is domination, sex is the ego winning, sex is the chase that only turns into love if there is a foundation of respect already in place. Do you hear me? RESPECT in place. You can’t fuck him and then think he’s going to see you as wifey; it’s too late. The moment a man figures out you’re easy to have, he will double down on disrespect. They don’t want your love, they don’t want to hear your opinions, they don’t even want to see you unless you’re ready to exchange sex. They will use you as a PLACEHOLDER until they find a woman smart enough to check him.

“Why won’t he text me, doesn’t he miss me?”

“Why doesn’t he take me out anymore, doesn’t he want to spend time?”

“Why does he tell me he loves me, then act distant?”

Look at his actions, not his words! HE DOES NOT FUCK WITH YOU WHEN YOUR CLOTHES ARE ON. Everything he does is to set up sex, never about quality time with you and your brain. He texts his friends, he opens up to his friends, he moves his schedule around for his friends. You are not his friend, you’re pussy. And if you don’t recognize that and think it’s deeper, then the joke will always be on you.

Smart women don’t fuck because a man is cute.

Smart women don’t fuck because a man is kind.

Smart women don’t fuck because a man keeps her laughing.

Smart women don’t fuck because a man has money and success.

Smart women get what they want during the chase, take a man’s power, and then make him desperate for attention. Can you do that? Most of you have done that. But it was with men you didn’t like as much, men who you saw as weak betas. You’re unhappy in your dating life, because you can’t wield that same power over Alpha men.

Here’s a secret… all men are the same.

Things Women Forget About Men

There are a few types of men I break down in my books. But let’s zero in on the three you need to understand to instantly raise your Relationship IQ.

The Popular Man: He has always gotten attention from both men and women. He’s seen as special because of what he does: an athlete, a musician, or a natural leader. Because he has inflated confidence and an unchecked ego, he moves in on women, and they rarely say “no” because they already know he’s important. Every woman wants a man whom other people look up to. So they get easy pussy without having to work hard for it.

This is the man you all want. This is the “needle in the haystack” that only shows up once a month of a dating app. This is the “god sent” man you randomly run into and think you’ve been blessed. When most women dream of a happy ending, it’s with the Popular Man.

Spoiler Alert: The Popular Man doesn’t want 99% of you, because these kinds of men have a deep desire to chase, not catch, and can never be with a woman like you who puts his dick on a pedestal and lets him get away with murder.

Still, you will try to “love him into submission” because that’s what basic women do.

The Unpopular Man: These are the “ugly-cute” guys you’re used to dealing with. They’re kinda corny, pretty boring, don’t have much, their opinions are usually formed by the ideas of stronger men whom they follow.

These are the guys who didn’t get any play in school, and had to “nice” their way to pussy. As adults, they’re the ones following random Red Pill misogynistic YouTubers and Reddit Bros because they’re angry that the girls they want all want the popular guys.

This is the man you don’t want, but it’s the man with whom most of you have been in relationships. The popular guys fuck you, traumatize you, and send you back to the streets. These unpopular lames are the ones who stick with you, always pop back up, and whom you settle for when lonely.

Spoiler Alert: You don’t want a man who follows after other men, who isn’t exciting, and who is low-key not that smart. But if you keep playing it safe, this is the kind of man you will marry and have kids with, and then wake up one day crying because you are the lame chick who fell for the lame ass man no one else wanted.

The Recently Popular Man: What happens when an Unpopular Man comes into money, fame, or success? He becomes more desirable… but he’s still lame. Why are certain women on OnlyFans generating millions? Because they know how to talk to this brand of clown. These are the “new money” low self-esteem, yet cocky, assholes who will pull you in, push you away, only to pull you back, all because women hurt them in the past.

Men who never received attention when they were younger, then get clout later in life, will spend years trying to get revenge on women. They will love bomb you with money, then verbally abuse you. They will try to manipulate you into doing all kinds of sexual things, just so they can hold it over your head and call you a slut. Psychology, these men always wanted the pretty cheerleader; now they’re going to do everything they can to dirty her up for never reciprocating. They literally hate women.

Me (Sees attractive girl at an event): Damn, she’s pretty.

Actor Who I Won’t Name: She ain’t shit, bro. I shot ropes on this bitch’s face who looked just like her.

Why do men take satisfaction in disrespecting women and dwindling down to the lowest sexual domination, in this case, cumming on her face? Because of jealousy and resentment! Men want the power that you ladies possess naturally. These types of men smile in your face, text you sweet shit, then secretly plot a way to dehumanize you. …the signs are always there, but you don’t want to open your eyes to the fact that “new bae” is secretly a predator.

Spoiler Alert: These are the men that most of you get played and ghosted by as you get older. They’re the truck drivers with money, the new business owners, the corporate nerds who dangle their success and money in your face, and you dance right along because you think they’re your last shot at finding someone who isn’t paycheck to paycheck.

Things Women Forget About Power

Popular Men want your pussy, but not giving it to them until they jump through hoop after hoop and bend the knee will humble their ego and form respect. Only through that respect, and fear that you may leave them, will they be a dog that can now be properly put on your leash.

Unpopular men want your pussy, but not giving it to them and instead forming a friendship where they do favors and things for you, makes them a useful follower. He’ll be the “male bestie” who would die to eat your pussy, but you keep him around because he’s useful when you need something fixed, need to be treated on your birthday, and he can always introduce you to men who are better than he is.

Recently Popular men want your pussy, but not giving it to them, and pretending to stroke their egos will satisfy their thirst to be loved. They want to win you because, unlike the Basicas, you aren’t impressed with their newfound money or status. You tease like you may give in, then show him he’s still not good enough, which doesn’t push him away; it makes him want you that much more. This man will become your bitch, your bank account, even a husband who signs over his net worth to you if that’s what your end goal is.

Women are smarter than men. Women are powerful. So why isn’t womenkind women? Why are you all out here looking dumb over dick on the interenet? “Don’t blame me I’m the victim, G.L.” Know you’re the sucker!

The problem with modern dating is that most of you know, accept, and embrace what I just wrote… only to forget it all the next day because you overthink the process… get tired… and just want love at any cost.

“I’ll just keep being genuine and sweet because I don’t want to miss out on this guy who really likes me,” moans Tina Typical.

“It’s hard to find a good man in my city,” laments BBL Brenda.

“The right man will find me one day, if that’s God’s plan,” preaches Sister Sarah.

Fuck all of that noise.

99% of men will need to be trained to respect you and see you as more than an object. Why? Because men aren’t raised right. They’re raised by other mysoginistic men or by basic mothers who were never “girl’s girls”. Do you understand the world you live in?

You can’t pray for change. Get a new butt. Or suck his dick until he falls in love! There is no amount of religion, no amount of being submissive, nor amount of body enhancements that will do that work for you. Power comes from not being afraid to challenge men in all the ways I’ve been writing about for years. Stand up these men, and show them that you are built differently from the rest of these dummies!

Make Them Simp For You

You should be the one making him send paragraphs because he misses you and can’t see you on his terms.

You should be the one smutting him out in the bedroom, making him do things that he would never admit to his boys.

You should be the Goddess whom he stops seeing as an OBJECT and starts seeing as a PARTNER.

Love exists, but it’s earned, ladies. Know how they see you. Know how to make them chase. Know how to vet them. Know how to keep them thirsty without giving a crumb of coochie.

Only then will they be obsessed with your brain, in love with your aura, and see you as a Game Changer they can’t live without. Quality men love powerful women, but the key is to mask that power so they don’t know until it’s too late that they just ran into a Spartan.

Come back and read this anytime you need a reminder…