Woman A: Dates one man at a time. Is loyal to the "talking" stage. Emotionally invests in that one man even without a relationship title.
Woman B: Dates multiple men. Understands that there is nothing wrong with getting to know people in order to see who is the best fit. Doesn't over-invest in any man until he proves himself.
Are you Woman A or Woman B?
Most of you pretend to be Woman B, but the reality is you date one man at a time because you're desperate to hit a home run, get wifed, and leave this crazy world of dating alone. You meet a dude; he's nice, handsome, has a good career path, and he talks just the right amount of cocky shit to make your coochie spring a leak by the end of date one. In your mind, "that's my boyfriend, he just doesn't know it yet." Women become loyal mentally before a man does anything special!
All the other guys you swiped on those apps--- cut off. All the weird thirst buckets in your DMs who you entertain out of boredom--- cut off. That ex who you're thinking about giving another chance---not anymore, cut off! You met the man who you want to be yours and you're using a combination of prayer, law of attraction, and good old fashion "wishing" to mentally affirm that he will be yours.
- He's not your "official boyfreind" but you're going to fuck him
- You think he's so different but you haven't truly vetted him
- All of your "rules" go out the window. You make him the exception.
- Instead of having to earn you, he gets a pass, proving you're EASY AS FUCK
Strong women date from a place of power... Weak women date from a place of "hope".
When potential meets lust, smart women make dumb choices. You bought into "what could be" potential. You're open off "He's so sweet" love bombing. How old are you? How many times have you been victimized by these types of men?
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