Woman A: Dates one man at a time. Is loyal to the "talking" stage. Emotionally invests in that one man even without a relationship title.
Woman B: Dates multiple men. Understands that there is nothing wrong with getting to know people in order to see who is the best fit. Doesn't over-invest in any man until he proves himself.
Are you Woman A or Woman B? Most of you pretend to be Woman B, but the reality is you date one man at a time because you're desperate to hit a home run, get wifed, and leave this crazy world of dating alone. You meet a dude, he's nice, handsome, good career path, and he talks just the right amount of cocky shit to make you spring a leak by the end of date one. In your mind, "that's my boyfriend, he just doesn't know it yet." All the other guys you swiped on those apps--- cut. All the weird thirst buckets in your DMs who you entertain out of boredom--- cut. That ex who you're thinking about giving another chance---cut! You met the man who you want to be yours and you're using a combination of prayer, law of attraction, and good old fashion "wishing" to mentally affirm that he will be yours. This new guy is the exception to all your rules about moving too fast and you know in your soul that he's the one. When potential meets lust, smart women make dumb choices. You bought into "what could be" and that's why you cut everyone off and put your eggs in his basket before you've fully vetted him.
4-6 months later... he wasn't the one. He wasted your time. Now here you are bitter, angry, and lonely because you allowed yourself to be that basic ass woman that dated one at a time. A Spartan would have had another guy or two on the roster. A Spartan would have read enough of my work to know that the honeymoon stage is always a false high. A Spartan would have never put her eggs in one fucking basket because a Spartan lives by the rule that she's single and free to do what the fuck she wants until someone earns her loyalty! You're not a Spartan, you are still a little girl in a grown ass woman's body that gets her hopes up because you're afraid to risk the dick.
Women are the prize. "Not these days with the way guys act--" zip that shit up Basica, no one wants to hear your hot ass breath spewing excuses. I don't care if you don't go many places to meet guys or if you only get a few quality options that want to date you, the only thing you need to hit reset on your sad ass weak ass Basica ass life is to be proactive and stop waiting for these men to pick you up and put you down! Over committing is something 9 out of 10 of you do out of pure laziness. Yes, men are guilty of doing it as well, but the average male always has a backup plan, women rarely do. Ladies, I'm a happily married man that used to play this game when I was younger. A lot of guys don't like me because I help women in need. Stop being hard headed and use this wisdom I'm about to share as we go deep into the mindset of how this game is played so you can either break free of this way of life or avoid it all together...
How Men Play The Game
If a man is not engaged, married, or in a long time serious relationship, his eggs are in other baskets, meaning that he is actively in the process of dating other women, fucking other women, or open to talking to other women while he's dealing with you. Why do men do this? Because even the dumb ones are smart enough to cover their bases. If you start acting funny, get in your feelings, turn out to be a false alarm, or if he finds someone he likes more, a man can f...