Attractive gainfully employed men exist in every city. Guys who will court you like a trophy, spoil you like a queen, and apply pressure like you're more important than oxygen are within your reach but the problem is you don't know what the fuck you're doing. You have ZERO game, shaky self-esteem, and think that high value men are supposed to just drop into your lap because it's written in the stars? You're a grown ass woman still filled with delusion and trying to manifest results like a teenager.
You download an app and wait for magic to happen... because some girl on a podcast said that's how she met her husband.
You hide your best pics in your IG story... because you're insecure about the like count. Craving attention but fumbling it at the same time.
You live your entire social life reacting instead of creating opportunities. You're a WAIT TO BE PICKED type of girl, not a WATCH ME SNATCH WHO I WANT type of GODDESS.
Spoiler alert: Your dating life this year is going to be mid as fuck. You'll meet some guy who seems nice, then he'll ghost. You'll finally get attention from some guy who looks the part but is actually broke as hell, and you'll actually consider "helping him" get on his feet. You'll hear from someone from your past, and because you're so desperate for a dick to replace your shower head you'll give them a chance, waste your entire summer, and end up sad as fuck again come next December because you wasted yet another year of your prime, dating like a weak bitch, not once using anything that I write on this site or in my books in a real way to get different results.
"It's not my fault, G.L. it's hard to find men these days," says the Basica that never goes out enough to meet men organically, doesn't know how to flirt on the internet, and whose first date vetting skills are so bad that she thinks a washed up college athlete who works at a car dealership is goals. Bitch do BETTER.
Right now there's a woman I know who went 5 for 5 in terms of baiting upper echelon men to slide into her DMs and ask her out. Not text, not sext, not flirt endless - they took her on a fucking date. Why can't you manifest those kinds of results? The painful truth is that you don't have the confidence, the aggression, nor the no fucks given attitude to step out of your shy-girl comfort zone.
I know so many great women who stumble through life, praying they get snatched up by a quality man, but few of them know what a quality man looks like in real life. You don't need to get your stomach put into your ass to get someone with status to slide into your DMs. You don't need to be a certain waist size to get successful men to chase after you. There are certain intangibles that high quality men seek in women, and if you weren't so insecure, you would recognize that you already have what they want!
The only thing stopping you from attracting what you want is a lack of belief in yourself! Show me a man who says he isn't looking for anything serious and I'll show you a woman who can make him change his mind. YOU are that kind of woman but you refuse to show it! Today I'm going to give you a crash course in stepping your pussy game up and finding the courage to embrace your power instead of sitting on the bench waiting for "god to bless me." You are god and it's time to take control of your world with an entire roadmap on how to attract high-quality men, step by step... let's start.
Step One: What to look for so you know you're not wasting time
Last month I received an email from a woman about her current roster. Listen to the men she had on her team because it's going to make you sick. Guy One: Teacher's assistant at her niece's school. Guy Two: Her ex-boyfriend from college who moved back in town. Guy Three: A 37-year-old who owned his own lawn care business, who happens to be married. Her goal wasn't marriage, but companionship. She was in her late 20s and simply wanted a loving friend who would travel with her, feed her, and fuck her.
So why did she pick a guy who works part time at an elementary school, an ex who was back in town living with his brother while he tried to find a job, and a man who had an entire other life to live? Because each of those men came easy. Two men who asked for her number and one guy who already had her number. That's not a roster, that's litter! No one else wants these dudes, and you got a nerve to be acting cockier than a Alabama Barker song.
You don't have a roster, beloved, you have 3-5 trash dudes in your phone who don't do anything for you. Bro wouldn't loan you a bottle of water in the desert, is in no rush to even see you unless it's after midnight, yet you smile every time he texts you. Who lowered your bar this low, Basica? Before you talk to anyone romantically, the first discussion you need to have with that little ChatGPT inside your head is "Does this man deserve me," not "He's cute and we're vibing..." Stop disrespecting your ancestors by choosing vibes over competence!
When I wrote back that she needed to make sure to hold off on sex-- surprise surprise she had already fucked all three men. Well, not the ex, recently but only because he didn't have transportation to come sample her recycled pussy. Ladies, not all men deserve to hold space in your phone let alone your heart. High value = quality. You don't fuck brokies, you don't fuck exes, and you don't let a married man even taste your pussy unless they're prepared to Sponsor your life. Those are the rules to roster dating that rarely get followed because you allow anyone to come in and grab your attention when you're lonely.
You have to stop thinking of yourself as "bored with a dry phone," and start thinking of yourself as "priceless ready to be earned!" All men do is embarrass you and waste your time, but who picked those men? Who let them in? Who gave them the keys to the kingdom! You did because you're not discerning enough!
Step Two: How To Spot A Predator
There are gentlemen providers and then their are fucking weirdo predators. What if I told you that you could test every single man with just one question and expose who he was at heart? You probably won't do this step, because you're afraid to push men away, but fuck it, let's get into it. When talking to a man i...
