People love to spew the cliché of “everyone deserves a second chance” and forgiveness is what a good person practices. Bullshit. Not everyone deserves a second chance and not knowing when to walk away will rob you of the best years of your life. One more chance turns into two more chances followed by one last chance. How many times do you need the same person to piss in your mouth before you figure out urine doesn't taste good? Let’s say you've had an up and down relationship with a guy, he’s lied and cheated, and finally you two split. He’s sick without you, begs like a puppy dog, and three weeks after swearing him off, you’re reconsidering. Your mother tells you that everyone deserves a chance, your best friend tells you that nigga still ain't shit. Which advice do you take? Your mother’s older and wiser, so she’s always right… Hell no, she’s probably been dumbed out by your daddy and is still paying the price for giving that clown endless chances. Your friend is giving you the best advice, but when you’re in love anything that doesn't end with, “Go ahead and take him back”, is considered hating. People love the idea of one more chance, not because it’s morally sound, but because it gives them permission to choose with their heart instead of their head. When you want someone so bad, you will pull weak ass celebrity examples out of your ass, biblical quotes, and even place the blame on your own attitude and behavior. Some situations are unique and do deserve a chance to work itself out. The fucked up thing is that every girl thinks that her situation is special, her guy is different, and she can make anything work. To get played when you thought that your love was real and that you were the greatest woman in the world is embarrassing. However, is the sickening pain you feel a result of true love or the humbling effect of incompatibility?
All women have a general fantasy list of wants they look for. When a girl finally finds someone who sort of meets some of thos...