If the Universe meant for you to be with that man, then the Universe would have made that man act right... bullshit.
You two couldn't get along because of personality differences...
He moved away and didn't want to do long distance...
He was still working on himself.. and you're still working on you...
Life isn't cut and dry. You meet people who ARE perfect for you, but one of you fucked it up. Now here you are, single as a dollar bill, still thinking about someone from your distant past or recent past, and your anxiety gives way to logic: "The person I'm meant to be with was right there, and I fucked it up."
Life isn't a make-believe fairy tale where things work out in the end. Life is about wisdom that comes from choices. You learn lessons and stop making mistakes. OR. You don't learn your lesson and keep making the same mistakes. I don't care how "good" of a person you are. If you don't heal your hurt from your childhood, it will fuck you for life. If you aren't strong enough to look into your soul and face your insecurities, conquer your personality flaws, and change for the better, life will keep setting you up with tests where you will keep failing. Why be so cruel? Because life isn't a happy fucking dance, it's a training ground to make you into the best version of yourself.
Look at the last year of your life. Have you grown or are you still relapsing? Can you fly above the haters, snatch the souls of men, deal with your own emotions before they explode, and be proud of the woman staring back in that mirror? No. You're still out here being basic, fumbling relationships, crying over dumb shit, and unable to inspire real love, just lust. This isn't who you were meant to be!
Today we need to talk about starting your life over and repairing the damage of your past so you can finally wake the fuck up and be a Goddess who manifests at will! Big pussy energy is the process of becoming confident, self-aware, and so undeniable that you can have any man you want. Be it a new guy on an app, a platonic friend that you're afraid to cross that line with, or that "one who got away."
Sit and wait = you settle for whatever you can get.
Level up and attack = go get whoever you have a taste for because you KNOW you are that bitch.
What life do you want to live?
Even When Going Backwards A Spartan Moves Forward.
Let me start with a story of a woman who emailed me last year. I'll code name her "Weak Bitch Wanda" and her story started like a lot of yours. Wanda had been seeing this guy "...
